How Our Life Insurance Needs Have Changed Over the Years - What Mommy Does (2024)

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Today I want to talk about a serious subject: life insurance needs. Jeff Rose over at GoodFinancialCents has challenged personal finance bloggers, or anyone else with a passion about life insurance, for that matter, to write about the topic. The official LifeAware movement occurred on August 22nd, but I’m late writing this because I’ve been caught up in life with three kids. Go figure. ;=)

Life Insurance Needs Over the Years

Life insurance is what I would consider a necessary evil. Nobody wants to pay for it, but nobody wants to leave this world knowing their affairs won’t be taken care of once they’re gone.

My husband and I have gone through many types of insurance over the years. When we were first married, we purchased life insurance through work plans.

We chose random dollar amounts – we didn’t have any obligations like kids or a house and we were used to being poor college kids, so we didn’t think it would be a big deal if we suddenly lost one of our incomes.

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Life Insurance for Married Homeowners Without Children

Within a few years, though, we moved into a house and reconsidered the scenario where one of us might die. Considering the fact that we purchased our home based on two incomes and we were still young, we matched our insurance amounts with the value of our home and remarrying prospects.

We figured if one of us were to die, then the other person would need help making mortgage payments until he or she got remarried. According to my husband, that would be approximately 6 months for him and 5 years for me. LOL

Life Insurance Needs for Thirty-Something Parents with Three Kids

Fast forward a few more years, and we found ourselves having kids. This is when we really started getting serious about life insurance.

We had to consider how much money one of us would need if the other one were to die. We also had to figure in how much money it takes to raise a child. And another. And another!

Furthermore, we had to consider the fact that I don’t work outside of the home and my husband does.

What if I died?

What if my husband died?

What if we both died?

Would I remarry and when?

When would he remarry? hahahaha

There was a lot to consider. We met with a lady at State Farm who convinced us that a whole life policy was a good investment. We paid a lot for that plan and felt really secure with our coverage.

Since then, we’ve downgraded that plan and added a term life insurance plan with a much higher payout in the event of my husband’s passing. The new combination works better for us. It’s cheaper, yet offers more coverage in the immediate future while our children are still young and would require years and years of financial assistance in the event of our death(s).

What works for us might not work for everyone. But regardless of your life situation, if you have children in the mix, I encourage you to consider getting life insurance. It’s no fun paying the premiums now, but it sure is nice to know your family would be taken care of if you were no longer here.

As I’m writing this, I realize that even though we have life insurance, I’m not sure our family knows everything they need to know about the policy in case something were to happen to both my husband and myself at the same time. I think I know what needs to be on this weekend’s to-do list!

Do you think life insurance is important for your family? Did it take having kids for you to get serious about life insurance?

Life Insurance Resources:

How Much Life Insurance Do You Need? Get one personal finance blogger’s take on the amount of life insurance you need.

Types of Life Insurance – If you’ve ever wondered what the difference is between Whole, Variable, Term, and Universal life insurance, this article offers a good primer on the four types.

Life Insurance Needs Calculator – If you can answer a handful of questions about your current and future financial obligations, this calculator can spit out a life insurance needs recommendation.

#lifeAWARE Life Insurance Movement

Want to read over 100 other blog posts on the topic of life insurance? Head on over to the Life Insurance Movement!

Here are a handful of my favorites, especially as they relate to my post above:

Life Insurance by Age – Wondering whether 15-year-olds or 60-year-olds need life insurance? The Financial Blogger examines insurance needs over the decades @ Fabulously Broke.

Reasons Why Families Need to Get Life Insurance: Take It From a Guy Not Trying to Sell You a Policy – John @ My Family Finances approaches this serious subject with a good dose of humor and reality. He points out that your spouse would need to pay for daycare, college funds, and retirement even after you’re gone.

Should You Buy Life Insurance for Your Child? – I originally wanted to write about life insurance for kids, but it made me so sad to think of one of my children dying that I couldn’t do it. I’ll let Melissa over at Parenting Family Money broach the subject on my behalf.

Why Young Families Need Life Insurance – In case you’re still not convinced you need life insurance, Robert @ The College Investor offers even more reasons why it’s a good idea.

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FAQs

How will life insurance needs change over your lifetime? ›

If fewer people are depending on you financially, your mortgage and other debts have been repaid, and you have substantial financial assets, you may need less life insurance protection than before. But it's also possible that your need for life insurance will remain strong even after you retire.

Does life insurance need change dramatically over one's life? ›

Because as you grow older, your responsibilities change. Your age, your health, your salary, your number of dependents, your financial obligations — all these will evolve over the years and decades to come, and each one plays a part in determining how much life insurance you should have.

How would having a family change your need for life insurance? ›

Having a child

When your children are young, having sufficient life insurance for each parent is critical. If you or your spouse were to suddenly die, life insurance limits need to be able to pay for daycare, help fund a college education and cover everyday living expenses.

What happens to life insurance after 20 years? ›

After the 20-year level term ends, your coverage expires.

At what age does your life insurance end? ›

What Age Does Life Insurance Expire? The age 100 maturity date means the policy expires and coverage ends when the insured person turns 100. One possible result is that the policyholder (and their heirs) get nothing, despite decades of paying into the policy. But times change, and now people tend to live longer.

How the life insurance industry is changing? ›

Insurers will engage in more process automation across marketing, distribution, underwriting, claiming, and policy servicing. Leading insurers will use automation and empathy during the next decade to reach outcomes such as driving revenues and policies in force, optimizing expenses, and minimizing risks.

At what point is life insurance not worth it? ›

Life insurance may not be worth if you have no dependents, if you have a tight budget, or if you have other plans for providing for them after your death.

What happens if you never use your life insurance? ›

Generally, when term life insurance expires, the policy simply expires, and no action needs to be taken by the policyholder. A notice is sent by the insurance carrier that the policy is no longer in effect, the policyholder stops paying the premiums, and there is no longer any potential death benefit.

Should seniors keep life insurance? ›

For many older adults, life insurance can provide an important safety net when your family needs it most. There are quite a few reasons to consider life insurance for senior citizens: A payout from your policy can help ensure quality care for your partner or spouse as they age or as their medical expenses grow.

How much life insurance should a family have? ›

A common rule of thumb is at least 6% of your gross income plus 1% for each dependent. A stay-at-home parent should get enough life insurance to cover the costs incurred by the family if anything should happen to them.

Should my stay-at-home wife have life insurance? ›

A stay-at-home parent typically needs coverage so that, if he or she died, the surviving spouse could protect his or her earnings potential while also paying for services to keep the household afloat.

Who doesn't need life insurance? ›

No Financial Dependents: If you have no spouse, children (including no plans to have children), or other dependents relying on your income or financial support, life insurance may not apply to your situation. In this case, your death would not be a financial burden to anyone.

What is the 7 year rule for life insurance? ›

The 'seven-pay' test

The IRS uses the “seven-pay” test to determine whether to convert a life insurance policy into a MEC. If you put too much money into your policy in the first seven years, it becomes a modified endowment contract.

Do I get my money back if I outlive my life insurance? ›

If you outlive your coverage, 100% of the money you paid in premiums during the term is returned to you, tax-free. However, if you fail to make your payments or cancel the policy, you may not get a premium refund (exact rules vary by insurer).

What is the 5 year rule for life insurance? ›

you have been insured for the 5 years of service immediately before the date your annuity starts, or for the full period(s) of service during which you were eligible to be insured if less than 5 years; and. you have not converted to an individual policy.

What happens when your life insurance term is over? ›

If your term life policy expires while you're still alive, your insurance company will notify you that your coverage has ended, and you no longer need to pay your premium. If you still need coverage, it may be possible to renew your policy for a set period of time.

Does life insurance gain value over time? ›

As you pay your premiums on a whole life insurance policy, a portion of the payments goes into the cash value, which will grow over time through interest accruals and—if you choose—dividends. The cash value serves as an accumulating savings element you can tap into during your lifetime.

What happens to life insurance after the term is over? ›

Generally, when term life insurance expires, the policy simply expires, and no action needs to be taken by the policyholder. A notice is sent by the insurance carrier that the policy is no longer in effect, the policyholder stops paying the premiums, and there is no longer any potential death benefit.

Do life insurance premiums change over time? ›

Do life insurance premiums increase every year? It depends on your policy. If you have a guaranteed premium life insurance policy, you'll pay the exact same amount till the policy ends. But if you have a reviewable policy the insurer has the right to increase your annual premiums.

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