Avoiding Estate Planning Horror Stories – Tax and Estate Planning for You (2024)

I have recently worked on several trust disputes that could have been avoided or reduced if the trust creation had been done with more forethought.

First, let me say that these are NOT cases in which I prepared the trusts. These are cases in which trusts were prepared by others and then brought to me after the original trustee was deceased.

What is especially upsetting about the recent trust disputes I have seen is that several of these issues caused huge fights among family members. Surely the deceased relative did not wish to start family feuding.

Remember that creating a trust has as its main purpose preventing or reducing major complications and costs upon your death. Thus, if your trust does not meet the needs of your specific situation, you may not have achieved this.

To help avoid trust complications, I offer below some simple steps that can reduce family feuds:

1. Do NOT simply copy another person’s trust for your own, erroneously assuming that your estate situations are exactly the same. This is rarely the case, and if your trust has not been created specifically for your own estate there can be major complications at your death.

2.While I understand that some people may not want to get married, keep in mind that only a legal marriage allows for the marital deduction from estate tax. Otherwise, if you have a taxable estate, the funds that you leave to your long-time companion will be subject to a 40% tax. Also, a bequest to a spouse is much harder to contest by potential heirs who feel they have been shortchanged or ignored.

3.If you own real estate, leave clear instructions in the trust as to what is to be done with that property: Do you want it to be sold? Rented out? Is it a vacation home to be shared by the family? Do you want your successor trustee to make the determination?

4.Specific real estate considerations:

a)If the trust beneficiaries are to continue to hold and rent out the property, who will manage the property and what will the compensation be for managing that property? How and at what intervals will the proceeds of that property’s revenue stream be distributed to all the named beneficiaries? Should you consider forming a family partnership or LLC?

b)If one beneficiary wants to sell the property and one beneficiary wants to keep it, include in your trust how this is to be accomplished. Provide for a buyout mechanism such as an appraisal or auction. Or consider naming an independent trustee to make such decisions.

c)If the property is a vacation home, provide a mechanism for determining who gets to use it and when.

5. Make sure all bank accounts are in the trust — otherwise there may be a dispute over whether these are included in the trust distribution. If you need to have another person on a bank or securities account for convenience, make that person a Co-Trustee or Special Trustee rather than a joint owner of the account.

6. Make sure your trust has a “no contest” clause so that anyone contesting your estate plan loses his or her inheritance.

7.Create a list or label those family heirlooms and valuables that may cause feuding. Include this information in your trust. (The list or labeling can always be amended.)

8.If you decide that one child should receive a larger share than another — say because one child has much larger financial resources — include a gift for the non-recipient child, whether cash or a particularly significant family heirloom, so this child knows you have not forgotten him or her. (You should also consider a letter to him or her explaining the disparity.)

9.To ensure that your plans for your surviving family go as smoothly as possible as well as legitimately reducing taxation on your estate, have an estate planning attorney in your state of residence create your trust rather than using some online fill-in-the-box form.

10.Then review your trust every few years for changes in the estate laws as well as changes in your family status and for changes necessitated by our evolving society. For example, do you have a digital rights management provision in your trust and in your power of attorney? (Click here to read an article on the afterlife of digital rights.)

(And click here to read why a trust is needed besides a will.)

— September 12, 2016

The information in this article is NOT legal advice, only considerations for you to discuss with your own estate planning attorney. The providing of this material does not establish an attorney-client relationship.

Avoiding Estate Planning Horror Stories – Tax and Estate Planning for You (2024)

FAQs

Why do people avoid estate planning? ›

Thinking about dying, even indirectly through estate planning, makes many people uncomfortable. There are various complicated psychological explanations for why this happens. But for many people, it comes down to a belief (perhaps subconscious) that talking about death will somehow hasten it.

Why should you be concerned with estate planning? ›

If you want your assets and your loved ones protected when you can no longer do it, you will need an estate plan. Without one your heirs could face big tax burdens and the courts could designate how your assets are divided—and even who gets to raise your children.

Is estate planning not for the wealthy? ›

People with lots of money, property, or other valuable assets typically took the time to set up a plan to ensure their wishes were carried out after they passed away. However, estate planning is not exclusively for people with vast wealth at their disposal.

What is poor estate planning? ›

The “poor man's estate planning” sometimes refers to the practice of putting your child on the title to your deed. The idea is that when you die, the property automatically transfers to the child without having to go through the probate process.

What are the fears of estate planning? ›

Some people are overwhelmed by the complexity of their finances or by their chaotic family relationships; some are afraid to contemplate their own mortality; some are loathe to relinquish control of their assets or give away cash or securities to their children, and some just don´t want to pay another lawyer´s bill.

Why do estate plans fail? ›

One of the most common reasons estate plans fail is because they are not regularly updated. Life circ*mstances change, and an estate plan should reflect those changes. It could become outdated or ineffective if individuals do not update their estate plans.

What is the most important decision in estate planning? ›

Wills and Trusts

A will or trust should be one of the main components of every estate plan, even if you don't have substantial assets. Wills ensure property is distributed according to an individual's wishes (if drafted according to state laws). Some trusts help limit estate taxes or legal challenges.

Who is the primary beneficiary in a will? ›

The primary beneficiary is the person or persons selected to receive the death benefit (contributions and interest) in the event of your death. The contingent beneficiary is the person or persons selected to receive the benefit if the primary beneficiary is not alive at the time of your death.

When should you think about estate planning? ›

When Should You Start Thinking About Estate Planning? In California, as soon as you accumulate any assets—be it a car, savings account, or a piece of valuable jewelry—you should start an estate plan. This foundational step is not about the value of your assets but about the intentions behind them.

How do rich people avoid estate taxes? ›

Private-placement life insurance, or PPLI, can be used to pass on assets from stocks to yachts to heirs without incurring any estate tax. In short, an attorney sets up a trust for a wealthy client. The trust owns the life-insurance policy that's created offshore.

At what net worth should you have a trust? ›

Many advisors and attorneys recommend a $100K minimum net worth for a living trust. However, there are other factors to consider depending on your personal situation. What is your age, marital status, and earning potential?

What is the executor of wealth? ›

After someone dies, someone (called the deceased person's 'executor' or 'administrator') must deal with their money and property (the deceased person's 'estate'). They need to pay the deceased person's taxes and debts, and distribute his or her money and property to the people entitled to it.

What are the consequences of poor estate planning? ›

Estate assets may decrease in value due to negligence or theft. Without a good plan, even a competent executor may have trouble locating, managing, and disbursing your assets. Unnecessary estate tax.

What are the risks of not having an estate plan? ›

If a person dies without an estate plan, thus intestate, the state's laws will determine how their assets are distributed. These laws may not align with the decedent's wishes, leading to unintended consequences, disappointments, and family conflicts.

What is it called when an estate has no money? ›

An estate with insufficient funds to pay the estate's obligations is “insolvent.” An estate's obligations are usually of two sorts: 1) the debts of the decedent, including the costs of administering the decedent's probate, and 2) gifts due to the decedent's heirs or legatees pursuant to the decedent's Will or the ...

Which of the following are reasons why individuals engage in estate planning? ›

Do I need an Estate Plan?
  • 1.) Avoid Probate. Avoiding probate is easily one of the most common reasons people seek out the guidance of an Estate Planning Attorney. ...
  • 2.) Reduce Taxes. ...
  • 3.) Avoid the Ugliness. ...
  • 4.) Protect your Beneficiaries. ...
  • 5.) Protect your Assets.

Is estate planning not an essential part of retirement planning? ›

Similarly, passing on wealth the specific way you wish isn't automatic. For these reasons, a detailed retirement plan and estate plan are necessary. It's best to create both together when possible so that they can complement each other.

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