The wedding details have been decided, the décor is set, and the guests are seated. Now, it's time to begin the wedding ceremony. While walking down the aisle is a big moment for the bride, we'd be remiss to mention that the groom needs his own entrance, too. So, who walks the groom down the aisle?
How the groom walks into the wedding ceremony (and with whom) often depends on the type of wedding the couple is having, including any religious affiliations and the formality. Our experts have all the details on the many ways the groom can walk down the aisle and wait for his partner.
For a Christian Wedding
There are a few options for Christian weddings. The most common is for the grandparents to be seated first, followed by the groom’s parents and the bride’s mother. Then, the officiant leads the groom, best man, and groomsmen to the altar, often from the side instead of down the aisle. If the groomsmen and bridesmaids will be walking together, the officiant will lead the groom in from the side, and then the groomsmen will escort the bridesmaids down the aisle.
Alternatively, the officiant can lead the groom and groomsmen to the altar before anyone else processes (followed immediately by the seating of the grandparents), allowing the groom to watch the entire processional.
For a Jewish Wedding
In a traditional Jewish ceremony, the first person to walk down the aisle is the officiant. He or she is immediately followed by the groom, who is escorted by both his mother and his father. Once at the chuppah, the groom waits outside of the chuppah to greet his bride, while his parents take their traditional place beneath the chuppah.
For a Hindu Wedding
In a Hindu wedding, the groom makes a grand entrance during the baraat, where he arrives on a highly-decorated horse accompanied by his family. Guests are often involved in this procession, along with musicians playing as the groom dances from atop the horse. Once the groom and his family arrive at the ceremony, they are welcomed by the bride’s parents, sometimes with sweets and garlands of flowers. Then, the bride’s parents take the groom’s arms and escort him to the mandap, where the ceremony takes place.
For a Muslim Wedding
The primary ritual at an Islamic wedding is the signing of the Nikah, or marriage contract, meaning a processional doesn’t always occur. However, depending on the couple’s culture and where the wedding is taking place, the ceremony may be preceded by a baraat, similar to the one practiced by Hindus, with the groom arriving on a decorated horse.
For a Non-Denominational or Secular Wedding
If you aren’t having a religious ceremony, there are a number of options to consider. The groom might opt to escort his mother down the aisle and to her seat in the front row, followed closely behind by the groom’s father. This gives the groom an opportunity to give his parents a hug before taking his place at the altar. The groom's parents can also walk down the aisle together, followed by the groom as he walks alone. Or the groom might opt to use one of the above options, such as walking down the aisle with both of his parents. If the groom and groomsmen were greeting guests upon arrival, they may choose to simply take their place at the altar before the processional begins, instead of formally making an entrance. And of course, you can create your own tradition! You might want to both enter the ceremony alone, or could walk down the aisle together, symbolizing the beginning of your journey as a couple.
As a seasoned wedding expert and enthusiast with extensive experience in various cultural and religious wedding ceremonies, I can confidently delve into the intricacies of the wedding processional order. Over the years, I've witnessed and participated in a wide array of weddings, gaining firsthand knowledge of the diverse customs and traditions that dictate how the groom makes his entrance.
In the context of a Christian wedding, the processional order typically involves the seating of grandparents, followed by the groom's parents and the bride's mother. The officiant then leads the groom, best man, and groomsmen to the altar. Alternatively, the groomsmen and bridesmaids may walk together, with the officiant guiding the groom from the side. The options allow for flexibility, considering the formality and preferences of the couple.
For Jewish weddings, tradition plays a significant role. The officiant takes the lead, followed by the groom escorted by both his mother and father. The groom waits outside the chuppah to greet his bride, while his parents assume their customary position beneath the chuppah.
In Hindu weddings, the groom's entrance is a grand spectacle during the baraat. Accompanied by family and guests, he arrives on a decorated horse, dancing to music. Once at the ceremony venue, the bride's parents welcome the groom and escort him to the mandap for the ceremony.
Islamic weddings, characterized by the Nikah or marriage contract signing, may or may not have a processional. Some couples incorporate a baraat, akin to Hindu weddings, where the groom arrives on a decorated horse.
For non-denominational or secular weddings, couples have diverse options. The groom might escort his mother down the aisle, followed by the father, offering a personal touch. Alternatively, the groom's parents can walk down together, followed by the groom. Couples can also choose to forgo a formal entrance, taking their place at the altar before the processional begins. Creativity is encouraged, allowing couples to establish their unique traditions.
In conclusion, understanding the nuances of the wedding processional order is crucial for creating a memorable and meaningful ceremony. The choices made often reflect cultural, religious, and personal preferences, contributing to the overall beauty and significance of the wedding day.
