Son Refuses to Pay Mother's Hospital Bills After Years of Abuse (2024)

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A devastating story of abandonment and infidelity. πŸ’” Abandoned by family: Heartbreaking story of a son's struggle πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦ Surviving abuse by family can leave deep emotional scars πŸ’” Neglected stepchild seeks justice after years of mistreatment πŸ’” Lonely childhood due to abusive mother, son refuses hospital bills. Overcoming past abuse and thriving thanks to therapy and support ❀️ Man refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills amidst guilt-tripping. Son refuses to pay mother's hospital bills after years of abuse πŸ’” Survivor struggles with guilt and harassment from abusive mother's supporters. Family feud over medical expenses: To pay or not to pay? Son refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills Leave the abusers behind and enjoy your wonderful life. πŸ’ͺ🏼 NTA. Revenge fantasies aside, commenter disagrees with reconnecting with mother's ex-husband. Victim of abuse refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills πŸ’Έ NTA. Overcoming toxic family and being successful despite abuse πŸ™Œ Handling unwanted calls from unknown people like a pro πŸ“žπŸ‘Š Mother chose to treat son like crap. He's NTA for refusing to pay hospital bills. Payment could result in legal obligation for rest of the bills. πŸ’Έ Standing up to abusive family: NTA bites family's a**! NTA: Empathetic response to son refusing to pay abusive mother's bills Doubts arise about the story's authenticity. πŸ€” Comment and replies are calling out the post as fake πŸ€” Family failed to make amends, get restraining orders, NTA 🚫 Don't pay for their abuse. NTA, stay strong πŸ’ͺ Commenter's insensitive remark sparks humorous replies Commenter accuses story of being fake, others disagree πŸ€” Defending oneself against unfair blame for parents' mistakes. NTA πŸ‘ Doubts on authenticity, but supportive comments suggest NTA. Sarcastic comment and witty replies about fake Cinderella story πŸ™„ Trust your conscience. You're NTA. You owe them nothing! πŸ™Œ NTA. Family expects too much after years of mistreatment. πŸ’°πŸš« Standing up to abusive family can be tough. Stay strong ✌️ Karma catches up: Son refuses to pay abusive mother's bills πŸ’Έ Cutting toxic people out of your life is liberating πŸ™Œ Standing up to abuse: One person's journey to healing πŸ™Œ A lighthearted comment in a serious discussion ⚑ Protect yourself from possible credit fraud. #FreezeYourCredit πŸ›‘οΈ Don't let guilt keep you from a happy life πŸšΆβ€β™€οΈ NTA. Best to keep blocking and not engage. Request to see hospital bill and do not hand over cash. Actual insurance is the only reasonable option that could help her. Don't open the door to communication as it could affect your well-being. American medical system creates issues like this. NTA πŸ€” Document everything and seek legal advice. NTA, move on. You don't owe them a thing. Stay strong πŸ’ͺ Breaking free from abuse, NTA refuses to be a money tree 🌱 Heartwarming support for abuse survivor, a reminder of human kindness ❀️ Documenting abuse: a powerful tool for self-advocacy. ✍ Not the a**hole for standing up to abusive mother. Cutting ties with abusive 'family' - NTA πŸ™Œ Don't feel guilty for not paying. You're NTA πŸ™Œ FiancΓ© gets praise for supporting NTA Don't let guilt force you to pay for their finances πŸ’° Cheers to standing up against abuse! πŸ™Œ #NotTheA**hole Comment dismissed as fake, YTA accusation backfires πŸ’₯ Don't let them guilt-trip you, NTA! πŸ’°πŸ’ͺ This comment seems out of place...πŸ€” NTA. You owe her nothing. Enjoy your wonderful life 🌟 Commenter finds story ridiculous and humorous πŸ˜‚ OP is NTA for refusing to pay mom's medical bills. FAQs
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After years of abuse and neglect from his family, a man is contacted by his mother, who needs money for her cancer treatment. Despite feeling guilty, he refuses to pay and is called an a**hole by his family. Read on to find out if he's in the wrong. This story raises important questions about familial responsibility and the consequences of abuse. Can you relate to this man's situation?

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Overcoming past abuse and thriving thanks to therapy and support ❀️

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Man refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills amidst guilt-tripping.

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Survivor struggles with guilt and harassment from abusive mother's supporters.

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Family feud over medical expenses: To pay or not to pay?

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Son refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills

A son shares his harrowing story of abuse and neglect at the hands of his mother and step-family. Despite a traumatic childhood, he managed to turn his life around, finding success, love, and happiness. Now, his mother, who abandoned him and wished him dead, is asking for his help with her medical bills. He refuses, leading to backlash from his step-family and half-siblings. But is he really in the wrong for saying no to the woman who caused him so much pain? Read on for the comments and reactions.

Leave the abusers behind and enjoy your wonderful life. πŸ’ͺ🏼 NTA.

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Revenge fantasies aside, commenter disagrees with reconnecting with mother's ex-husband.

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jammy913 | jammy913

Victim of abuse refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills πŸ’Έ

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MissCheyenne14 | MissCheyenne14

NTA. Overcoming toxic family and being successful despite abuse πŸ™Œ

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Redefined421 | Redefined421

Handling unwanted calls from unknown people like a pro πŸ“žπŸ‘Š

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MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench

Mother chose to treat son like crap. He's NTA for refusing to pay hospital bills. Payment could result in legal obligation for rest of the bills. πŸ’Έ

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Standing up to abusive family: NTA bites family's a**!

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NTA: Empathetic response to son refusing to pay abusive mother's bills

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Doubts arise about the story's authenticity. πŸ€”

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Comment and replies are calling out the post as fake πŸ€”

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Family failed to make amends, get restraining orders, NTA 🚫

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Michael_Chandra | Michael_Chandra

Don't pay for their abuse. NTA, stay strong πŸ’ͺ

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Commenter's insensitive remark sparks humorous replies

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Commenter accuses story of being fake, others disagree πŸ€”

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Defending oneself against unfair blame for parents' mistakes. NTA πŸ‘

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haveitgood | haveitgood

Doubts on authenticity, but supportive comments suggest NTA.

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Sarcastic comment and witty replies about fake Cinderella story πŸ™„

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Trust your conscience. You're NTA. You owe them nothing! πŸ™Œ

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NTA. Family expects too much after years of mistreatment. πŸ’°πŸš«

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Standing up to abusive family can be tough. Stay strong ✌️

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Karma catches up: Son refuses to pay abusive mother's bills πŸ’Έ

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Cutting toxic people out of your life is liberating πŸ™Œ

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Standing up to abuse: One person's journey to healing πŸ™Œ

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A lighthearted comment in a serious discussion ⚑

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Protect yourself from possible credit fraud. #FreezeYourCredit πŸ›‘οΈ

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Don't let guilt keep you from a happy life πŸšΆβ€β™€οΈ

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monagr | monagr

NTA. Best to keep blocking and not engage. Request to see hospital bill and do not hand over cash. Actual insurance is the only reasonable option that could help her. Don't open the door to communication as it could affect your well-being.

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Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340

American medical system creates issues like this. NTA πŸ€”

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sreno77 | sreno77

Document everything and seek legal advice. NTA, move on.

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Lotex_Style | Lotex_Style

You don't owe them a thing. Stay strong πŸ’ͺ

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tnscatterbrain | tnscatterbrain

Breaking free from abuse, NTA refuses to be a money tree 🌱

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Heartwarming support for abuse survivor, a reminder of human kindness ❀️

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orangestar17 | orangestar17

Documenting abuse: a powerful tool for self-advocacy. ✍

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Not the a**hole for standing up to abusive mother.

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Cutting ties with abusive 'family' - NTA πŸ™Œ

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Don't feel guilty for not paying. You're NTA πŸ™Œ

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FiancΓ© gets praise for supporting NTA

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Don't let guilt force you to pay for their finances πŸ’°

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bloodfeier | bloodfeier

Cheers to standing up against abuse! πŸ™Œ #NotTheA**hole

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Comment dismissed as fake, YTA accusation backfires πŸ’₯

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Don't let them guilt-trip you, NTA! πŸ’°πŸ’ͺ

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This comment seems out of place...πŸ€”

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NTA. You owe her nothing. Enjoy your wonderful life 🌟

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Commenter finds story ridiculous and humorous πŸ˜‚

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StorminCastles | StorminCastles

OP is NTA for refusing to pay mom's medical bills.

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How long until medical debt is forgiven? β€Ί

This includes medical debt. According to provisions in the Fair Credit Reporting Act, most accounts that go to collections can only remain on your credit report for a seven-year time period. After that, they shouldn't negatively affect your credit score anymore.

Am I responsible for my mother's medical bills after she dies? β€Ί

In most cases, the deceased person's estate is responsible for paying any debt left behind, including medical bills. If there's not enough money in the estate, family members still generally aren't responsible for covering a loved one's medical debt after death β€” although there are some exceptions.

What state is wiping out medical debt? β€Ί

It's the latest example of a Democrat governor using government money to wipe away medical debt, which has ballooned over decades. Pennsylvania Gov. Josh Shapiro announced a plan on Tuesday to wipe out $400 million in medical debt from state residents.

At what age is a person responsible for their own medical bills? β€Ί

Once a child turns 18, the child is legally responsible for his or her own medical bills unless the parent signs an agreement with the medical provider to pay those bills.

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Please visit our list of the best balance transfer cards and best Chase cards for alternative options. It takes seven years for medical debt to disappear from your credit report.

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The debt will likely fall off of your credit report after seven years. In some states, the statute of limitations could last longer, so make a note of the start date as soon as you can.

Can children inherit medical debt? β€Ί

Typically, heirs are not held responsible for a deceased person's medical debt, unless they have explicitly agreed to assume responsibility, or if the spouse resides in a community property state. In community property states, the spouse might be liable for half of the medical debt accrued during the marriage.

What debts are not forgiven at death? β€Ί

Additional examples of unsecured debt include medical debt and most types of credit card debt. If you die with unsecured debt, repayment becomes the responsibility of your estate.

Can creditors go after beneficiaries? β€Ί

When a person dies, creditors can hold their estate and/or trust responsible for paying their outstanding debts. Similarly, creditors may be able to collect payment for the outstanding debts of beneficiaries from the distributions they receive from the trustee or executor/administrator.

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Additionally, laws at the. You can take steps to make sure that the medical bill is correctly calculated and that you get any available financial or necessary legal help. If you do nothing and don't pay, you could be facing late fees and interest, debt collection, lawsuits, garnishments, and lower credit scores.

How many Americans struggle to pay medical bills? β€Ί

Approximately 14 million people (6% of adults) in the U.S. owe over $1,000 in medical debt and about 3 million people (1% of adults) owe medical debt of more than $10,000.

What state is not in debt? β€Ί

The least indebted state is Oklahoma, according to the report, followed by Iowa and a tie for third with New Hampshire and Nebraska. The fifth best state in the category is Ohio. The next five best states, from best to worst, are Wyoming, Indiana, and Wisconsin, with Vermont and South Dakota tied in their ranking.

Are parents responsible for adult child's debt? β€Ί

No, parents are not generally responsible for an adult child's medical debts, said Richard Gundling, senior vice president at the Healthcare Financial Management Association, an organization for finance professionals in health care.

Can your child's Medical bills affect your credit? β€Ί

Do Medical Bills Affect Your Credit? Simply receiving a medical bill doesn't affect your credit score, of course. Neither does paying the bill a few days late. Medical bills affect your credit score only if a collection agency gets involved.

Is a husband responsible for his wife's Medical bills? β€Ί

In community property states, spouses are generally held responsible for each other's debts, even if they did not incur the debts themselves. However, community property laws vary from one community property state to another, so you should speak to an attorney to determine responsibility for medical bills.

Can medical debt be forgiven? β€Ί

The 2021 Medical Debt Forgiveness Act is designed to help Americans who are dealing with medical debt by forgiving the debt and helping them get back on their feet financially.

How long does it take most doctors to pay off their debt? β€Ί

Depending on various factors, paying off medical school loans might take 10 to 30 years. According to a study from Weatherby Healthcare, 25% of doctors expect to take six to 10 years to pay off their student loan debt, while 34% expect to take at least 10 years to pay off their student loans.

Can medical bills under $500 go to collections? β€Ί

Effective April 2023, the three credit bureaus β€” Experian, TransUnion and Equifax β€” removed all unpaid medical debt that had an initial balance below $500 from credit reports. Any new medical collections under $500 also won't appear on credit reports as well. If your medical debt is over $500, you still have time.

What happens when medical debt goes to collections? β€Ί

Debt collectors are allowed to contact you to collect on the bills you owe and are allowed to sue you to recover the money. If they win the lawsuit, they can garnish your wages (taking some of your paycheck every pay period until the debt is paid) or put a lien on your home.

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