Son Refuses to Pay Mother's Hospital Bills After Years of Abuse (2024)

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A devastating story of abandonment and infidelity. 💔 Abandoned by family: Heartbreaking story of a son's struggle 👨‍👩‍👦 Surviving abuse by family can leave deep emotional scars 💔 Neglected stepchild seeks justice after years of mistreatment 💔 Lonely childhood due to abusive mother, son refuses hospital bills. Overcoming past abuse and thriving thanks to therapy and support ❤️ Man refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills amidst guilt-tripping. Son refuses to pay mother's hospital bills after years of abuse 💔 Survivor struggles with guilt and harassment from abusive mother's supporters. Family feud over medical expenses: To pay or not to pay? Son refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills Leave the abusers behind and enjoy your wonderful life. 💪🏼 NTA. Revenge fantasies aside, commenter disagrees with reconnecting with mother's ex-husband. Victim of abuse refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills 💸 NTA. Overcoming toxic family and being successful despite abuse 🙌 Handling unwanted calls from unknown people like a pro 📞👊 Mother chose to treat son like crap. He's NTA for refusing to pay hospital bills. Payment could result in legal obligation for rest of the bills. 💸 Standing up to abusive family: NTA bites family's a**! NTA: Empathetic response to son refusing to pay abusive mother's bills Doubts arise about the story's authenticity. 🤔 Comment and replies are calling out the post as fake 🤔 Family failed to make amends, get restraining orders, NTA 🚫 Don't pay for their abuse. NTA, stay strong 💪 Commenter's insensitive remark sparks humorous replies Commenter accuses story of being fake, others disagree 🤔 Defending oneself against unfair blame for parents' mistakes. NTA 👍 Doubts on authenticity, but supportive comments suggest NTA. Sarcastic comment and witty replies about fake Cinderella story 🙄 Trust your conscience. You're NTA. You owe them nothing! 🙌 NTA. Family expects too much after years of mistreatment. 💰🚫 Standing up to abusive family can be tough. Stay strong ✌️ Karma catches up: Son refuses to pay abusive mother's bills 💸 Cutting toxic people out of your life is liberating 🙌 Standing up to abuse: One person's journey to healing 🙌 A lighthearted comment in a serious discussion ⚡ Protect yourself from possible credit fraud. #FreezeYourCredit 🛡️ Don't let guilt keep you from a happy life 🚶‍♀️ NTA. Best to keep blocking and not engage. Request to see hospital bill and do not hand over cash. Actual insurance is the only reasonable option that could help her. Don't open the door to communication as it could affect your well-being. American medical system creates issues like this. NTA 🤔 Document everything and seek legal advice. NTA, move on. You don't owe them a thing. Stay strong 💪 Breaking free from abuse, NTA refuses to be a money tree 🌱 Heartwarming support for abuse survivor, a reminder of human kindness ❤️ Documenting abuse: a powerful tool for self-advocacy. ✍ Not the a**hole for standing up to abusive mother. Cutting ties with abusive 'family' - NTA 🙌 Don't feel guilty for not paying. You're NTA 🙌 Fiancé gets praise for supporting NTA Don't let guilt force you to pay for their finances 💰 Cheers to standing up against abuse! 🙌 #NotTheA**hole Comment dismissed as fake, YTA accusation backfires 💥 Don't let them guilt-trip you, NTA! 💰💪 This comment seems out of place...🤔 NTA. You owe her nothing. Enjoy your wonderful life 🌟 Commenter finds story ridiculous and humorous 😂 OP is NTA for refusing to pay mom's medical bills. FAQs
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After years of abuse and neglect from his family, a man is contacted by his mother, who needs money for her cancer treatment. Despite feeling guilty, he refuses to pay and is called an a**hole by his family. Read on to find out if he's in the wrong. This story raises important questions about familial responsibility and the consequences of abuse. Can you relate to this man's situation?

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Lonely childhood due to abusive mother, son refuses hospital bills.

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Overcoming past abuse and thriving thanks to therapy and support ❤️

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Man refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills amidst guilt-tripping.

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Survivor struggles with guilt and harassment from abusive mother's supporters.

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Family feud over medical expenses: To pay or not to pay?

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Son refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills

A son shares his harrowing story of abuse and neglect at the hands of his mother and step-family. Despite a traumatic childhood, he managed to turn his life around, finding success, love, and happiness. Now, his mother, who abandoned him and wished him dead, is asking for his help with her medical bills. He refuses, leading to backlash from his step-family and half-siblings. But is he really in the wrong for saying no to the woman who caused him so much pain? Read on for the comments and reactions.

Leave the abusers behind and enjoy your wonderful life. 💪🏼 NTA.

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Revenge fantasies aside, commenter disagrees with reconnecting with mother's ex-husband.

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jammy913 | jammy913

Victim of abuse refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills 💸

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MissCheyenne14 | MissCheyenne14

NTA. Overcoming toxic family and being successful despite abuse 🙌

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Redefined421 | Redefined421

Handling unwanted calls from unknown people like a pro 📞👊

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MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench

Mother chose to treat son like crap. He's NTA for refusing to pay hospital bills. Payment could result in legal obligation for rest of the bills. 💸

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Standing up to abusive family: NTA bites family's a**!

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NTA: Empathetic response to son refusing to pay abusive mother's bills

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Doubts arise about the story's authenticity. 🤔

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Comment and replies are calling out the post as fake 🤔

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Family failed to make amends, get restraining orders, NTA 🚫

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Michael_Chandra | Michael_Chandra

Don't pay for their abuse. NTA, stay strong 💪

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Commenter's insensitive remark sparks humorous replies

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Commenter accuses story of being fake, others disagree 🤔

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Defending oneself against unfair blame for parents' mistakes. NTA 👍

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Doubts on authenticity, but supportive comments suggest NTA.

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Sarcastic comment and witty replies about fake Cinderella story 🙄

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Trust your conscience. You're NTA. You owe them nothing! 🙌

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NTA. Family expects too much after years of mistreatment. 💰🚫

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Standing up to abusive family can be tough. Stay strong ✌️

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Karma catches up: Son refuses to pay abusive mother's bills 💸

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Cutting toxic people out of your life is liberating 🙌

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Standing up to abuse: One person's journey to healing 🙌

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A lighthearted comment in a serious discussion ⚡

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Protect yourself from possible credit fraud. #FreezeYourCredit 🛡️

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Don't let guilt keep you from a happy life 🚶‍♀️

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monagr | monagr

NTA. Best to keep blocking and not engage. Request to see hospital bill and do not hand over cash. Actual insurance is the only reasonable option that could help her. Don't open the door to communication as it could affect your well-being.

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Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340

American medical system creates issues like this. NTA 🤔

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sreno77 | sreno77

Document everything and seek legal advice. NTA, move on.

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Lotex_Style | Lotex_Style

You don't owe them a thing. Stay strong 💪

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Breaking free from abuse, NTA refuses to be a money tree 🌱

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Heartwarming support for abuse survivor, a reminder of human kindness ❤️

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orangestar17 | orangestar17

Documenting abuse: a powerful tool for self-advocacy. ✍

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Not the a**hole for standing up to abusive mother.

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Cutting ties with abusive 'family' - NTA 🙌

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Don't feel guilty for not paying. You're NTA 🙌

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Fiancé gets praise for supporting NTA

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Don't let guilt force you to pay for their finances 💰

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bloodfeier | bloodfeier

Cheers to standing up against abuse! 🙌 #NotTheA**hole

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royalchoch | royalchoch

Comment dismissed as fake, YTA accusation backfires 💥

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Don't let them guilt-trip you, NTA! 💰💪

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Driftwood1884 | Driftwood1884

This comment seems out of place...🤔

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NTA. You owe her nothing. Enjoy your wonderful life 🌟

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NCKALA | NCKALA

Commenter finds story ridiculous and humorous 😂

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StorminCastles | StorminCastles

OP is NTA for refusing to pay mom's medical bills.

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Son Refuses to Pay Mother's Hospital Bills After Years of Abuse (2024)

FAQs

Can medical debt be forgiven? ›

Forgiving debt for health

To address this public health crisis, state and local governments are partnering with debt cancellation organizations like RIP Medical Debt, who take donor money to purchase medical debt from providers and collection agencies at a steep discount and forgive it.

Am I responsible for my mom's medical bills? ›

Who Is Responsible for Someone's Medical Debt When They Die? Your medical bills don't go away when you die, but that doesn't mean your survivors have to pay them. Instead, medical debt—like all debt remaining after you die—is paid by your estate.

Is a wife responsible for her husband's medical bills after his death? ›

The death of a spouse is not only financially stressful, but it can be emotionally stressful as well. Generally, a spouse is not responsible for the medical and credit card debt or loans of their deceased partner, unless they are mutually owned.

Is the policy holder responsible for medical bills? ›

This contract, often detailed in the policy's terms and conditions, outlines the responsibilities of the primary holder. Typically, while the insurance covers a significant portion of medical expenses, certain costs like deductibles, co-pays, or out-of-network charges might fall on the primary holder.

What state is wiping out medical debt? ›

Medical debt can make it impossible to buy a home, pay for college or save for retirement. To address the problem, Connecticut, New Jersey and a growing list of counties and cities are using public money to purchase and forgive millions of dollars of their residents' medical debt.

What is a medical bill debt forgiveness letter? ›

A medical hardship letter is used by a person to request partial or full forgiveness of their medical debt from a hospital or healthcare provider. The person seeking leniency should be able to demonstrate serious financial hardship that convinces the hospital that they are unable to pay their debts.

Can children inherit medical debt? ›

In most cases, the decedent's estate is responsible for paying off any debt left behind. This includes your parent's medical bills. However, if there is not enough money left in the estate to cover unpaid bills, the debt typically goes uncollected, explains Credit Karma.

Am I obligated to pay my deceased parent's debt? ›

You are not responsible for your parents' debt. This is true regardless of whether you inherit assets under their estate. However, a parent's estate must settle any debts before you can inherit. And children often share financial responsibilities with aging parents, often medical and housing costs.

What states have filial laws? ›

The states that have such laws on the books are Alaska, Arkansas, California, Connecticut, Delaware, Georgia, Idaho, Indiana, Iowa, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maryland, Massachusetts, Mississippi, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Dakota, ...

What debts are not forgiven at death? ›

Additional examples of unsecured debt include medical debt and most types of credit card debt. If you die with unsecured debt, repayment becomes the responsibility of your estate. Your legal estate refers to all the assets, property and money left behind by you or another deceased person when they die.

How to negotiate medical bills after death? ›

Call the medical provider to propose a settlement offer to be paid all at once or through a payment plan. Usually, a settlement offer is less than the amount owed and forgives added fees. Let the creditor know that the person who received services is deceased, and they may be more willing to work with you.

How long can debt be collected after death? ›

In California, creditors only have one year to collect on a debt. It doesn't matter if the surviving spouse didn't take out a line of credit or lease a car, if their name is on it, it's a community asset and if there's still debt on this asset, it's known as a community debt.

Are parents responsible for adult child's debt? ›

Once a child turns 18, the child is legally responsible for his or her own medical bills unless the parent signs an agreement with the medical provider to pay those bills. As for other debts incurred by children under 18, parents generally are not legally liable for these debts.

Can I be liable for my son's debt? ›

Generally, family members are not responsible for debts incurred by other family members. So, for example, you would not be responsible for the debts incurred by your parents or adult children. However, there are exceptions.

Can your child's medical bills affect your credit? ›

Do Medical Bills Affect Your Credit? Simply receiving a medical bill doesn't affect your credit score, of course. Neither does paying the bill a few days late. Medical bills affect your credit score only if a collection agency gets involved.

How to erase medical debt? ›

5 Useful Tips to Help You Erase Medical Debt
  1. 1) Negotiate a Lower Amount or Set Up a Payment Plan. You may be able to negotiate a reduction in the amount of your medical bills. ...
  2. 2) Hire a Medical Bill Advocate. ...
  3. 3) Apply for Charity Care. ...
  4. 4) Try Crowdfunding. ...
  5. 5) Declaring Bankruptcy: The Last Card to Play.

What happens when medical debt goes to collections? ›

If you can't pay your medical bills, the medical provider can sell your debt to a collection agency to recover the unpaid amount. This can affect your credit score negatively, which can damage your ability to secure loans.

Is it worth it to pay off medical debt? ›

Unpaid medical debts, like other missed bill payments, reflect poorly on you and can have a negative effect on your credit score. However, that will not happen immediately, so you have time to settle your debt and stay in good financial health.

Can medical bills under $500 go to collections? ›

As of April 2023, medical debt under $500 in collections and any medical debt that's been paid off no longer appears on consumers credit reports. Likewise, medical debt over $500 is not reported to the credit bureaus until a year after going to collections.

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