Son Refuses to Pay Mother's Hospital Bills After Years of Abuse (2024)

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A devastating story of abandonment and infidelity. ๐Ÿ’” Abandoned by family: Heartbreaking story of a son's struggle ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ Surviving abuse by family can leave deep emotional scars ๐Ÿ’” Neglected stepchild seeks justice after years of mistreatment ๐Ÿ’” Lonely childhood due to abusive mother, son refuses hospital bills. Overcoming past abuse and thriving thanks to therapy and support โค๏ธ Man refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills amidst guilt-tripping. Son refuses to pay mother's hospital bills after years of abuse ๐Ÿ’” Survivor struggles with guilt and harassment from abusive mother's supporters. Family feud over medical expenses: To pay or not to pay? Son refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills Leave the abusers behind and enjoy your wonderful life. ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ NTA. Revenge fantasies aside, commenter disagrees with reconnecting with mother's ex-husband. Victim of abuse refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills ๐Ÿ’ธ NTA. Overcoming toxic family and being successful despite abuse ๐Ÿ™Œ Handling unwanted calls from unknown people like a pro ๐Ÿ“ž๐Ÿ‘Š Mother chose to treat son like crap. He's NTA for refusing to pay hospital bills. Payment could result in legal obligation for rest of the bills. ๐Ÿ’ธ Standing up to abusive family: NTA bites family's a**! NTA: Empathetic response to son refusing to pay abusive mother's bills Doubts arise about the story's authenticity. ๐Ÿค” Comment and replies are calling out the post as fake ๐Ÿค” Family failed to make amends, get restraining orders, NTA ๐Ÿšซ Don't pay for their abuse. NTA, stay strong ๐Ÿ’ช Commenter's insensitive remark sparks humorous replies Commenter accuses story of being fake, others disagree ๐Ÿค” Defending oneself against unfair blame for parents' mistakes. NTA ๐Ÿ‘ Doubts on authenticity, but supportive comments suggest NTA. Sarcastic comment and witty replies about fake Cinderella story ๐Ÿ™„ Trust your conscience. You're NTA. You owe them nothing! ๐Ÿ™Œ NTA. Family expects too much after years of mistreatment. ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿšซ Standing up to abusive family can be tough. Stay strong โœŒ๏ธ Karma catches up: Son refuses to pay abusive mother's bills ๐Ÿ’ธ Cutting toxic people out of your life is liberating ๐Ÿ™Œ Standing up to abuse: One person's journey to healing ๐Ÿ™Œ A lighthearted comment in a serious discussion โšก Protect yourself from possible credit fraud. #FreezeYourCredit ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ Don't let guilt keep you from a happy life ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ NTA. Best to keep blocking and not engage. Request to see hospital bill and do not hand over cash. Actual insurance is the only reasonable option that could help her. Don't open the door to communication as it could affect your well-being. American medical system creates issues like this. NTA ๐Ÿค” Document everything and seek legal advice. NTA, move on. You don't owe them a thing. Stay strong ๐Ÿ’ช Breaking free from abuse, NTA refuses to be a money tree ๐ŸŒฑ Heartwarming support for abuse survivor, a reminder of human kindness โค๏ธ Documenting abuse: a powerful tool for self-advocacy. โœ Not the a**hole for standing up to abusive mother. Cutting ties with abusive 'family' - NTA ๐Ÿ™Œ Don't feel guilty for not paying. You're NTA ๐Ÿ™Œ Fiancรฉ gets praise for supporting NTA Don't let guilt force you to pay for their finances ๐Ÿ’ฐ Cheers to standing up against abuse! ๐Ÿ™Œ #NotTheA**hole Comment dismissed as fake, YTA accusation backfires ๐Ÿ’ฅ Don't let them guilt-trip you, NTA! ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’ช This comment seems out of place...๐Ÿค” NTA. You owe her nothing. Enjoy your wonderful life ๐ŸŒŸ Commenter finds story ridiculous and humorous ๐Ÿ˜‚ OP is NTA for refusing to pay mom's medical bills. FAQs
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After years of abuse and neglect from his family, a man is contacted by his mother, who needs money for her cancer treatment. Despite feeling guilty, he refuses to pay and is called an a**hole by his family. Read on to find out if he's in the wrong. This story raises important questions about familial responsibility and the consequences of abuse. Can you relate to this man's situation?

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Man refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills amidst guilt-tripping.

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Son refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills

A son shares his harrowing story of abuse and neglect at the hands of his mother and step-family. Despite a traumatic childhood, he managed to turn his life around, finding success, love, and happiness. Now, his mother, who abandoned him and wished him dead, is asking for his help with her medical bills. He refuses, leading to backlash from his step-family and half-siblings. But is he really in the wrong for saying no to the woman who caused him so much pain? Read on for the comments and reactions.

Leave the abusers behind and enjoy your wonderful life. ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ NTA.

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Revenge fantasies aside, commenter disagrees with reconnecting with mother's ex-husband.

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Victim of abuse refuses to pay abusive mother's hospital bills ๐Ÿ’ธ

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MissCheyenne14 | MissCheyenne14

NTA. Overcoming toxic family and being successful despite abuse ๐Ÿ™Œ

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Handling unwanted calls from unknown people like a pro ๐Ÿ“ž๐Ÿ‘Š

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MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench

Mother chose to treat son like crap. He's NTA for refusing to pay hospital bills. Payment could result in legal obligation for rest of the bills. ๐Ÿ’ธ

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Standing up to abusive family: NTA bites family's a**!

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NTA: Empathetic response to son refusing to pay abusive mother's bills

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Doubts arise about the story's authenticity. ๐Ÿค”

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Comment and replies are calling out the post as fake ๐Ÿค”

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Family failed to make amends, get restraining orders, NTA ๐Ÿšซ

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Michael_Chandra | Michael_Chandra

Don't pay for their abuse. NTA, stay strong ๐Ÿ’ช

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Commenter's insensitive remark sparks humorous replies

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Commenter accuses story of being fake, others disagree ๐Ÿค”

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Defending oneself against unfair blame for parents' mistakes. NTA ๐Ÿ‘

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Doubts on authenticity, but supportive comments suggest NTA.

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Sarcastic comment and witty replies about fake Cinderella story ๐Ÿ™„

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Trust your conscience. You're NTA. You owe them nothing! ๐Ÿ™Œ

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NTA. Family expects too much after years of mistreatment. ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿšซ

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Standing up to abusive family can be tough. Stay strong โœŒ๏ธ

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Karma catches up: Son refuses to pay abusive mother's bills ๐Ÿ’ธ

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Cutting toxic people out of your life is liberating ๐Ÿ™Œ

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Standing up to abuse: One person's journey to healing ๐Ÿ™Œ

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A lighthearted comment in a serious discussion โšก

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Protect yourself from possible credit fraud. #FreezeYourCredit ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ

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Don't let guilt keep you from a happy life ๐Ÿšถโ€โ™€๏ธ

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monagr | monagr

NTA. Best to keep blocking and not engage. Request to see hospital bill and do not hand over cash. Actual insurance is the only reasonable option that could help her. Don't open the door to communication as it could affect your well-being.

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Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340

American medical system creates issues like this. NTA ๐Ÿค”

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sreno77 | sreno77

Document everything and seek legal advice. NTA, move on.

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You don't owe them a thing. Stay strong ๐Ÿ’ช

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Breaking free from abuse, NTA refuses to be a money tree ๐ŸŒฑ

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Heartwarming support for abuse survivor, a reminder of human kindness โค๏ธ

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Documenting abuse: a powerful tool for self-advocacy. โœ

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Not the a**hole for standing up to abusive mother.

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Cutting ties with abusive 'family' - NTA ๐Ÿ™Œ

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Don't feel guilty for not paying. You're NTA ๐Ÿ™Œ

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Fiancรฉ gets praise for supporting NTA

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Don't let guilt force you to pay for their finances ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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Cheers to standing up against abuse! ๐Ÿ™Œ #NotTheA**hole

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Comment dismissed as fake, YTA accusation backfires ๐Ÿ’ฅ

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Don't let them guilt-trip you, NTA! ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’ช

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This comment seems out of place...๐Ÿค”

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NTA. You owe her nothing. Enjoy your wonderful life ๐ŸŒŸ

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Commenter finds story ridiculous and humorous ๐Ÿ˜‚

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OP is NTA for refusing to pay mom's medical bills.

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In California, creditors only have one year to collect on a debt. It doesn't matter if the surviving spouse didn't take out a line of credit or lease a car, if their name is on it, it's a community asset and if there's still debt on this asset, it's known as a community debt.

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A new study by researchers who partnered with RIP Medical Debt, a non-profit that buys and forgives medical debt, found โ€œdisappointingโ€ results when people's bills were purchased and forgiven, with little impact on people's credit scores and willingness to go to the doctor.

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  2. 2) Hire a Medical Bill Advocate. ...
  3. 3) Apply for Charity Care. ...
  4. 4) Try Crowdfunding. ...
  5. 5) Declaring Bankruptcy: The Last Card to Play.

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