Pathological Generosity: A Manifestation of Psychiatric Disorders (2024)

We would like to provide our thanks for an insightful piece on the relevance of gift giving in the context of a patient doctor therapeutic relationship. We would like to provide a psychoanalytic account of the various types of generosity, and how this can be a manifestation of psychiatric disorder.

We have encountered gift giving which had irrefutable consequences both on the person’s social but also personal level of functioning. The compulsion to carry out this act is strong, unamenable to reasoning and clearly pathological. We discovered pathological generosity can cause immense difficulty in the life of the sufferer, and to their loved ones. It may also have significant financial and social repercussions. In spite of this, the evidence base concerning pathological generosity is small, and information to guide treatment strategies is nearly non-existent. Our literature search yielded three peer reviewed articles which included one case study.

Generosity is defined as an individual’s capacity to sacrifice their material means in order to benefit others (Orgel S et al, 1968). This is to the extent whereby no profit or gain to one’s social reputation is expected in response (Ferreira-Garcia R et al, 2014). Akhtar (2012) defined 5 subtypes of pathological generosity: unrelenting generosity; begrudging generosity; fluctuating generosity; controlling generosity; beguiling generosity. The first three are described as abnormalities in the ‘intensity, nature and sustenance of generosity’. The last two are described as ‘pseudo-generosity’, because these are not motivated by complete lack of concern for oneself (Akhtar S, 2012).

Unrelenting generosity describes ‘excessive’ giving to others without pause or interruption. The individual concerned is typically not conscious of overstepping limits. The generosity can be such that the individual depletes their resources. Begrudging generosity is characterised by those who give but with reluctance and little enthusiasm (Akhtar S, 2012). Fluctuating generosity describes patterns of alternating generosity and parsimony. In controlling generosity there are conditions attached to gifts, and there can be a sad*stic element to the giving. Beguiling generosity is similar to controlling generosity but the giver can appear sincere while being in reality deceptive.

Pathological Generosity has been associated with a variety of psychiatric conditions. It can be a clinical manifestation of mania. It has also been reported in diseases that affect brain structure and function - including dementias - notably the temporal variant of Fronto-temporal Dementia. It is also associated with head injury, neuro-syphilis, and Parkinson’s disease treated with Dopaminergic Drugs (Ferreira-Garcia et al, 2014).

Pathological generosity can also be secondary to an enduring, pervasive personality disorder. A subject with underlying narcissistic personality traits may give excessively as part of their grandiose ideals or with the expectation that they would gain societal admiration. Patients with dependent personality disorders can find it difficult to make the simplest of demands from their perceived carer and show evidence of subordination. This is due to the apprehension of being rejected or abandoned by their care giver. Both these described behaviours satisfy the definition of generosity and in particular the ‘beguiling’ subtype.

Treatment should be approached in a multidisciplinary manner, initiated by a careful history and mental state examination. It should be part of a comprehensive treatment package for the underlying condition. The financial and social consequences of pathological generosity on patients and their families can be immense. Furthermore, the true prevalence of pathological gift-giving is not known, as systematic studies are lacking. Given the high prevalence of head injury and this being a possible aetiological factor, it is quite possible that there are a significant number of undetected cases, in which the person at present does not have access to treatment. Further awareness and research in this area would be warranted.

References
1.Akhtar, Salman. (2012) Normal and pathological generosity, Psychoanal Rev 99, 645-676.
2.Ferreira-Garcia, Rafael & Fontenelle, Leonardo & Moll, Jorge & Oliveira-Souza, Ricardo. (2014) Pathological generosity: an atypical impulse control disorder after a left subcortical stroke, Neurocase 20, 496-500.
3.Orgel, Shelley & Shengold, Leonard. (1968) The fatal gifts of Medea, The International Journal of Psycho-Analysis 49, 379-383.

Pathological Generosity: A Manifestation of Psychiatric Disorders (2024)

FAQs

What is pathological generosity? ›

Unrelenting generosity describes 'excessive' giving to others without pause or interruption. The individual concerned is typically not conscious of overstepping limits. The generosity can be such that the individual depletes their resources.

What is the psychology behind excessive gift giving? ›

Over-giving is also a sign of co-dependency, excessively emotional or psychological reliance on their partner. An NBC news article cited these co-dependent relationships as "an imbalance of power that favor the needs of the taker, leaving the giver to keep on giving".

What is compulsive giving? ›

Compulsive giving, therefore, involves pathological narcissism. In reality, it is the compulsive giver who coerces, cajoles, and tempts people around him to avail themselves of his services or money. He forces himself on the recipients of his ostentatious largesse and the beneficiaries of his generosity or magnanimity.

What are the 5 pathological traits? ›

The five-factor structure is easily recognizable and best interpreted as maladaptive variants or pathological forms of the Big-Five factors (Harkness & McNulty, 1994): Negative Affect (Neuroticism), Detachment (low Extraversion), Disinhibition (low Conscientiousness), Antagonism (low Agreeableness), and Psychoticism ( ...

Which are the 4 types of generosity? ›

The Buddha taught us that there are four basic types of generosity; 1) giving material things such as food, clothing and money, 2) giving protection from fear, anxiety and danger, 3) giving love and 4) giving the Dharma.

Is gift giving a trauma response? ›

Is gift-giving a trauma response? Gift-giving can sometimes be a trauma response, particularly if it's used to seek approval or mend strained relationships. This behavior might stem from past experiences where one felt the need to give gifts to feel accepted or loved.

Can gift giving be a form of manipulation? ›

It's a strategic manipulative approach, often used to build trust, feel indebted, or control the recipient. Gift-giving continues to be a particularly pervasive tool, especially when it comes to maintaining control in relationships.

Why do narcissists give so many gifts? ›

Specifically, narcissists give gifts with an eye to maintaining a relationship with the giver and to maintaining control in that relationship. You don't get expensive gifts from a narcissist because they think you are awesome; you get valuable gifts because they want you to continue to think that they are awesome.

Can a giver be a narcissist? ›

Giver: This type of altruistic narcissist appears very generous and may shower others with gifts and attention, similar to the manipulation tactic of 'love bombing'. They do this so that others appreciate them and show gratitude, believing they are kind and generous.

What is the psychology of giving too much? ›

People who give too much tend to have a perfectionistic streak, say Martin and Adams. They want to dispense care to others “perfectly.” Since this is impossible, they run a tab of psychological guilt when they feel they have fallen short in delivering perfection to others according to their high standards.

What is an extreme giver? ›

Compulsive giving is a rare, paradoxical form of narcissistic disturbance designed to manipulate others into becoming attached. Compulsive giving can result in other people feeling infantilized. Compulsive givers live on a precipice; they always assume that they will be rejected unless they manipulate others.

What are the 3 forms of generosity? ›

This can be studied through three main aspects: giving things, giving loving protection and giving loving understanding. The teaching on the first of these, material generosity, explains what is proper generosity and what is improper.

What is extreme generosity called? ›

Largesse is extreme generosity. If your neighbors bring you an expensive watch from Switzerland because you fed their cat while they were traveling, thank them for their largesse. Though pronounced "lar JESS," the word largesse looks sort of like largeness.

What is considered pathological behavior? ›

adjective. You describe a person or their behavior as pathological when they behave in an extreme and unacceptable way, and have very powerful feelings that they cannot control.

What is irrational generosity? ›

And by irrationally generous, I mean with no thought to what it might cost us... without a sense of lack, of not having enough.

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