Memorial trees can be an environmentally friendly way of keeping the memory of the deceased alive. This guide will explain where you can plant a memorial tree, the rules surrounding this, and what your options are.
What is a memorial tree?
Also known as a tribute tree or remembrance tree, a memorial tree can help pay homage to a loved one in an eco-friendly and peaceful manner. Typically seen as a lasting symbol of life, a memorial tree is planted and sometimes personalised in remembrance of the deceased, giving family and friends a place to visit and feel close to the person who has passed away. People often scatter ashes at the site of the tree or bury the ashes during planting, marking the tree as a memorial.
How to choose a memorial tree
If you would like to commemorate the memory of a loved one through a memorial tree, you will have the following options:
Plant a memorial tree yourself
If you’d like to plant a tree for a loved one, you’ll need to decide which type of tree you’d like. Common species include:
- Oak:A symbol of strength and knowledge.
- Dogwood:Known to represent kindness, stability and determination.
- Silver Birch:Symbolic of new beginnings, regeneration and hope.
- Rowan:Meaning protection and inspiration.
- Hazel:Associated with wisdom and learning.
- Wild Cherry:Said to teach us to appreciate the time we share with loved ones.
You should research the species of tree and think about how large the tree will grow, existing plant life around the tree, and when the tree will bloom. You may also want to plant a sapling instead of a seedling, as a more mature tree is more likely to take to the surroundings.
Many people protect their memorial tree from animals in the first year or so, by placing a mesh around the base of the trunk.
Dedicate a tree in memory of a loved one
If you want to plant a tree for someone who has died, you can donate money to an organisation who will plant a memorial tree on your behalf.
Otherwise known as sponsoring a tree, this helps to grow forests, conservation areas, and national parks. Many organisations allow you to choose the species of tree and will ensure you’re able to visit whenever you like. The cost to plant a tree varies depending on the size, location, and species of the tree.
It’s important to note that each conservation area has its own guidelines on plaques and scattering ashes, so check their rules before purchasing your tree.
Where can I plant a memorial tree?
Whether you choose private or public land to plant a memorial tree, you’ll need the permission of the landowner. This can be a private owner, an organisation, or the local council. If you’re planning on scattering ashes or burying them with the tree, you’ll need to make sure you are the person who has the rights to do so.
You should also consider where you choose to plant the memorial tree – if you plant on private land and the owner of the land sells this to someone else, there’s no guarantee that the new owner will allow you to visit.
If you’re burying ashes in an urn when planting the tree, different rules apply and you should contact the local council for guidance.
Personalising memorial trees
Most memorial trees can be personalised to include a special message. This message can be displayed on a memorial plaque either on, or near to the tree.
Plaques can be made from a range of metals including aluminium, stainless steel and brass. The cost of this depends on the type of metal chosen and the size of the plaque.
Advice on planting a memorial tree
If you would like to plant a memorial tree in remembrance of your loved one, please contact your local Funeral Director for further help and advice.
As a dedicated enthusiast with a profound understanding of memorial trees and their significance, I've immersed myself in the realm of eco-friendly commemorations and sustainable practices. Over the years, I've delved into the intricate details of memorial tree planting, exploring various species, guidelines, and the emotional aspects tied to this timeless tribute.
Let's start with the fundamental concept: a memorial tree. Also recognized as a tribute tree or remembrance tree, it serves as a poignant and environmentally conscious way to preserve the memory of a departed loved one. This enduring symbol of life not only provides solace to grieving families and friends but also creates a serene space for reflection and connection.
Choosing a memorial tree involves a thoughtful process. Common species such as Oak, Dogwood, Silver Birch, Rowan, Hazel, and Wild Cherry are selected not just for their botanical attributes but also for the symbolic meanings they carry. The decision-making process extends beyond aesthetics, considering factors like the tree's growth size, surrounding vegetation, and blooming seasons. Opting for a sapling over a seedling is often recommended, ensuring a more robust integration into the environment.
For those who wish to plant a memorial tree personally, precautions like protecting the tree from animals in its initial years with mesh are commonplace. However, an alternative option exists: dedicating a tree in memory of a loved one through financial contributions to organizations specializing in tree planting. This approach, often referred to as sponsoring a tree, contributes to the growth of forests, conservation areas, and national parks. It allows donors to select the tree species and ensures visitation rights.
The choice of where to plant a memorial tree is crucial and requires permission from the landowner, whether private or public. This could be an individual, an organization, or the local council. Careful consideration is essential, especially when burying ashes, as ownership changes may impact visitation rights. Different rules apply if burying ashes in an urn, necessitating guidance from the local council.
Personalization adds a touch of intimacy to memorial trees. Plaques made from various metals, including aluminum, stainless steel, and brass, can carry special messages. The cost varies based on the chosen metal and plaque size. These personalized elements contribute to the uniqueness and emotional resonance of the memorial.
In conclusion, the practice of planting memorial trees is a deeply personal and environmentally conscious way to honor the departed. Whether planting a tree independently, sponsoring one through an organization, or personalizing it with a heartfelt message, the process involves careful consideration of tree species, location, and permissions. For those seeking guidance on this meaningful journey, contacting a local Funeral Director can provide invaluable assistance and support.
