Love, Mortgages, and Broken Dreams: A Couple's Dilemma (2024)

A Love Story Begins 🥰 The Dream of Homeownership 🏡 The Perfect Home 🏠 The Parental Curveball ⚾ The Dilemma 🤔 Heartbreak 💔 The Unwanted Mortgage 🏦 The Old House 🏚️ Feeling Trapped 😟 The Decision 🎯 The Breakup 💔 The Love-Mortgage Rollercoaster: A Recap 🎢 🚩 Don't tie the knot! Protect your finances and happiness. 💔 Mortgage clause: Change ownership, pay up! 💸 Trust your gut and avoid being buried next to Fluffy. NTA: You're just renting their home, not buying your own 🏠 NTA. Don't let them make you pay for their dreams. 💔 Smart solution: Have parents rent it out for mortgage + 10% 👍 Financial abuse: Are you trapped paying for someone else's house? 💔 A blunt response shuts down the conversation. 🙅‍♂️ NTA. Don't pay for their bad financial decision. 💸 Taking on all the expenses for in-laws? Hard pass! NTA 😅 🚩 Don't do it! So many red flags! #NTA NTA...but the parents are. Draw a hard line with your partner. 💔 🚫 NTA: Don't buy them a vacation home, stand your ground! NTA. Selfish in-laws and a house that's not really yours. 💔 Zoxgg's mysterious comment leaves everyone intrigued. 🤔 Don't let love blind you. Protect yourself from financial entanglement. Stand your ground! 🛡️ Let them know it's a deal breaker. Don't do it! 😱 Navigating the minefield of living with in-laws 💣 Living with his parents? Paying for everything? NO NO NO! NTA, your partner's lack of understanding is a dealbreaker 😔 Taking over a mortgage with no ownership? Bad deal! 🤔 NTA. Living with in-laws for half the year? No way! 😅 Stand your ground! 🚫 Don't let his parents ruin your future! 🤔 A couple wants someone else to pay their mortgage? NTA Beware! Love, mortgages, and broken dreams can be a trap! 😱 Betrayed by family in a similar situation, don't trust anyone! 🤯 Protect your investment! Get on the house title with lawyer's help! ✍️ Taking over ownership and occasional visits? Not the a**hole! A bad deal that's hard to believe. Definitely not the a**hole. Not the a**hole, but what's the dilemma? 😕 Living with in-laws? 🤔 Maybe rethink that vacation house 🏡 Don't be a**hole landlord! Avoid the mortgage trap. 🚫🏠 Don't take over the mortgage! NTA. It's a terrible deal 😡 Don't pay their mortgage! Save for your own dream home! 💎 Agreement is key in a partnership. 💑 🚂 NTA! Don't let them guilt you into buying their house! 🏠 Protect your investment! Consult a lawyer and secure your future. 🚫 NTA - DON'T DO IT! A cautionary tale of living with in-laws NTA. Don't do it! No equity, no privacy, no return. NTA. Don't do this. 🚫 Deal breaker? NTA, let your SO know how you feel! NTA. Unreasonable? Let's dive into this couple's dilemma! 🙌 Parents expect couple to fund their retirement? NTA, stand firm! 😡 🚫 Don't let others control your financial future. NTA! Follow your instincts! Talk to a banker for legal advice! 💪 NTA. Did they really expect to live rent-free? 😂 You're not responsible for their financial mistakes. NTA! ✌️ No equity, living with in-laws? Lose-lose scenario. NTA! 🙅 🚫 Don't do it! Reconsider your future with this horrible idea. NTA. 🚩 Don't pay someone else's mortgage without legal protection! 🚫 Stand your ground! You have the right to live freely. 💪 NTA Hellll no! You're definitely not the a**hole here! 😤 Dump him! 💔 Find a cheaper and easier boyfriend! 😂 NTA. Renting their housemates' home? Rethink the relationship. 🤔 Moving in with in-laws? Expect to be maid and cook! 😬 NTA. Surround yourself with better people! 🤦‍♂️ NTA. Clear advice on buying a house with ambiguous partner. Don't get burned trying to save their home. NTA. Don't do it! Start your own life in your own house 🏠 Partner not ready to be a grown up. NTA! 👍 Be honest with your partner about your dreams and concerns. 💔 NTA, beware of paying for a home you don't own 🚨 NTA: Don't take over their mortgage. Stand up for yourself! 💪 Avoid this financial nightmare! NTA, stay out of it. NTA: Don't take over the mortgage, it's a potential financial disaster 😬 NTA: Stand your ground! Don't let them ruin your dreams! 💔 Don't let entitled partners run you over, you deserve better! 🚫🚗 Don't agree to this. You're not the a**hole. You're not responsible for this. Mortgage = "Death-pact" in French 😱 NTA - Couple's mortgage dilemma leads to underwater retirement home 🏠 Stand your ground and end the relationship. No compromise here. 💔 NTA. New houses can still have costly repairs. Be cautious! 🤔 Suspicion arises: Is his parents' disapproval intentional? NTA, but investing in a home without marriage? Risky move! 💔 Engaging compromise: Consider buying a house with an attached apartment. 🚶🏻 🏠 Splitting up over in-laws? That's a tough mortgage decision. Don't take over the mortgage! Your life, your decisions! 😡 Financial abuse? This couple's dilemma is heartbreaking. 💔 NTA - Don't take over their mortgage, it's not your responsibility 😡 Don't let anyone take away your choices and dreams 👏 Snowbirds causing trouble? This commenter says NTA. 🌴 🚫 Don't do it! His parents are so selfish! NTA. Run away! Don't get trapped in a controlling mortgage nightmare! 😱 NTA - Buy your own home and let him handle his parents mortgage. 💪 "NTA - Trust your gut. Your partner will never stop being the child." Don't take over the mortgage! Trust me, it's a trap 😬 Building your own home will create new memories and independence! 🏡 NTA. Partner's parents taking advantage. Make or break relationship. 🏠💔 Protect yourself from a lifetime of abuse. 💔💰 OP stands their ground against unfair mortgage situation. Stay strong! 🙏 👏 You're NTA! Don't settle for a lifetime of dependence! Couple's dilemma: Parents want vacation home in 'your' house 😱 FAQs