I Wish People Understood Bankruptcy Doesn't Make You A Bad Person (2024)

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I Wish People Understood Bankruptcy Doesn't Make You A Bad Person (1)

Everyone has heard of bankruptcy. But, as with anything a person may not have personally experienced, it's easy to develop false assumptions about it.

Unless someone has gotten up-close-and-personal with bankruptcy, there are some things they probably don’t know – things that might help if they or someone they care about are struggling with debt.

As a Licensed Insolvency Trustee, one thing I wish people understood about bankruptcy is that filing a bankruptcy doesn’t make you a bad person. In fact, it doesn't necessarily even mean you're bad with money.

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Bankruptcy Stigma

When considering bankruptcy as an option to deal with debt, people often feel shame about the financial situation they’re in, and they beat themselves up about being bad with money. They also tend to worry about what others will think of them. However, in most cases, the truth is that people who end up filing a bankruptcy honestly want to pay their debts, and in many cases, their history indicates they’re actually quite skilled with budgeting and saving money.

Misconceptions about the reasons people file a bankruptcy

Some people still view bankruptcy as a dishonest means of getting out of your obligations. But this isn’t what bankruptcy is about. In fact, Canadian bankruptcy laws are tailored to provide relief for the “honest but unfortunate debtor” and have been designed specifically to deny dishonest or exploitative people that relief. For example, section 178 of the Bankruptcy and Insolvency Act, which governs bankruptcies, lists a number of debts that cannot be discharged by a bankruptcy, including debts obtained as a result of fraud or misappropriation, and those arising as a result of certain criminal or civil offences.

Long ago, civilized society recognized that when a person has more debt than they could possibly hope to pay back in the foreseeable future, there must be a way to re-set their financial situation so that they can go on to live as contributing members of that society. This is why the Bankruptcy and Insolvency Act, which governs not only bankruptcy but also other formal insolvency proceedings, exists.

Most people who come to see us are honest but unfortunate, and they can be some of the most diligent and considerate people you’ll meet. They feel terrible about the prospect of not fully re-paying their debt, and they wish things had turned out differently. So if they aren’t bad people, they must be terrible with money, right? Not necessarily.

Some people who make a bankruptcy filing have been extremely unlucky, having suffered a series of misfortunes including health problems, unemployment, divorce, addiction, and fraud which would have drained the finances of most people. Before they consider bankruptcy, they have often tapped out savings and sold or mortgaged assets in order to pay the debt, but it simply wasn’t enough.

Others experience more of a slow burn of insolvency due to low income. They are often very good at budgeting and stretching a dollar, and have taken pride in meeting their obligations despite their low income for decades. They often do not have family support and have never been able to build a sufficient financial cushion so that when an unexpected event happens, they have few options other than taking on debt.

We also meet a lot of business owners, some who have successfully managed a business and employed many people for decades. Unfortunately, sudden massive changes in their business’s industry or macroeconomic events sometimes can lead to cash flow problems for the business, and often the individuals sink their life savings into propping up the business. When this isn’t enough and the business fails, they often find themselves personally liable for the business’s debts.

The reality is people who file bankruptcy are often just like you. They span every demographic, and they always have a story that explains how they got there.

Delaying getting help

Too many people delay coming to see a Licensed Insolvency Trustee, spending months, years or even decades struggling with their debt, because they are worried about how it will look or how it will feel to admit they can't pay their debt. I wish people knew it didn’t have to be that way.

Charla Smith & Company Ltd. is a Calgary-based Licensed Insolvency Truste, serving the southern Alberta region. We regularly provide advice to individuals who are considering bankruptcy. If you would like advice on options for dealing with your debt, contact us for a free, no-commitment consultation.

Disclaimer: This publication provides general information and should be seen as broad guidance only. The information contained herein cannot be relied upon to cover specific situations and you should not act, or refrain from acting, upon this information without obtaining specific professional advice relating to your particular circ*mstances. Charla Smith & Company Ltd. does not accept or assume any liability or duty of care for any loss arising from any action taken or not taken by anyone in reliance on the information in this publication or for any decision based on it.

Frequently Asked Questions

Bankruptcy is a legal way to get some or all (depending on your financial situation) of your debt forgiven when you can't pay it. For more information, see ourbankruptcy pageor contact us.

Absolutely. A Licensed Insolvency Trustee can talk to you about an array of options, including aConsumer Proposal. There may be some options that are not realistic for you, based on your situation. A Licensed Insolvency Trustee will meet with you and go over the options, helping you figure out which options are realistic for you and which one is the best to deal with your debt. Contact us to book a meeting to find out more.

Licensed Insolvency Trustees (or LITs) are the only people who can provide bankruptcy or Consumer Proposals as an option for dealing with your debt. They are uniquely qualified to provide these services and give you advice about your debt. For more information, see our blog post:What is a Licensed Insolvency Trustee?

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I Wish People Understood Bankruptcy Doesn't Make You A Bad Person (2024)

FAQs

Does filing for bankruptcy make you a bad person? ›

They think they are a bad person for even thinking about filing for bankruptcy. While these feelings are real, they are unwarranted. Debt problems are nothing recent.

How does bankruptcy affect you emotionally? ›

Your sense of self, security, and worth are often closely tied to financial circ*mstances. Loss of money can feel like a personal loss of identity, self-esteem, and confidence. A real or perceived loss of interpersonal power can happen before or after you file bankruptcy.

Can bankruptcy impact your entire life? ›

A bankruptcy remains on your credit report for up to 10 years and will continue to impact your score that entire time. That said, it's possible to rebuild your credit after bankruptcy.

Is bankruptcy the right answer? ›

The Bottom Line

Filing for bankruptcy can cause significant harm to your credit history, however it can be the best solution for managing debt that you can't afford to pay. Consider consulting with a reputable credit counselor to explain all your options for repayment before you file for bankruptcy.

Is it embarrassing to file bankruptcy? ›

Bankruptcy is a way of getting relief when you find yourself overwhelmed by debt. Unfortunately, in addition to being overwhelmed, many feel anxious and embarrassed about admitting that they need the type of debt relief bankruptcy provides. There is no reason to feel embarrassed about filing bankruptcy!

How long does bankruptcy affect a person? ›

In most cases, a Chapter 7 bankruptcy can stay on your credit reports for up to 10 years from the date you file bankruptcy. Once the 10-year period ends, the bankruptcy should fall off your credit reports automatically.

Is bankruptcy a trauma? ›

"It's important to acknowledge the act of filing bankruptcy can be psychologically difficult, cause stress on relationships, and even be traumatic for a family," says Joseph Goetz, president of the Financial Therapy Association.

Can bankruptcy cause depression? ›

After people file bankruptcy, the shame and stress that often stem from financial hardship can leave people feeling anxious and depressed.

Is bankruptcy the worst option? ›

Bankruptcy can relieve the stress of debt, but it can also cause you to lose some valuable assets and impact your credit for up to 10 years. However, if bankruptcy is your only option, it can be a way to get control over your finances and turn things around.

Why are bankruptcies so bad? ›

Non-exempt assets could be sold with the proceeds used to pay debt. Those who own luxury possessions probably will lose them. Bankruptcy remains on a credit report for 7-10 years and may affect the filer's ability to borrow in the future. Your credit score will plummet 100-200 points.

Is it better to file a Chapter 7 or 13? ›

You Can Keep Property You'd Lose in Chapter 7

However, there's a catch. You must pay its value through the repayment plan. So, if you have nonexempt property you can't bear to part with and can afford to pay to keep it, Chapter 13 bankruptcy might be the better choice.

What are the downsides of claiming bankruptcies? ›

Disadvantages of Bankruptcy

This can make it challenging to secure loans, credit, or even housing in the future. Loss of Assets: In Chapter 7 bankruptcy, debtors may be required to liquidate some of their assets to repay creditors. This can result in the loss of valuable property, such as a car or family heirlooms.

Why shouldn't people file for bankruptcy? ›

Credit Will Be More Expensive and Limited. After declaring bankruptcy, you'll have to work hard to raise your credit score. You will likely face limited access to credit and very high interest rates until you can rebuild your financial reputation.

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