How to Take Care of Your Candles so They Last Forever (2024)

There's a right way to take care of your candles—and a wrong way, which may come as a surprise to some. After all, how much attention could one candle possibly need? But the truth is, there are some steps you should be taking if you want to keep your candles in tip-top shape.

How to Take Care of Your Candles

Ensure Your Candle Burns Evenly

When you light a candle for the first time, let it burn for a while. You want to ensure the entire surface of the candle melts before you put it out. If you don't, your candle could end up with a rim of solid wax that never ends up melting. (This is called tunneling, and you've probably seen it happen.) If you want all the wax in your candle to burn, let it burn evenly before you put it out.

Scott Dean Brown, the owner of SDB Candle Co., says this process should take at least one hour—so try not to light a new candle unless you have a little time to spare.

Keep the Candle Clean

Once you've used a candle a few times, you may notice that soot and other debris have accumulated inside the container. Clean this gunk out the moment you see it.

"Debris that protrudes above the wax can be ignited by the candle's flame and produce multiple flames in the candle," says Kathy LaVanier, the CEO of Renegade Candles. This can cause the candle to overheat, creating a flashover (when the candle's entire surface lights on fire).

Use tweezers (or something similar) to pluck wick trimmings from your candle's wax whenever you see them. Use a dry towel to wipe away soot, fingerprints, and other aesthetic distractions. (Don't use a wet towel, because water can disrupt your candle's burn.)

Trim the Candle's Wick

If you want a clean, even burn, make sure your candle's wick is the right length. This might require some trimming. Before you light your candle, double-check your wick's length. If it's longer than the recommended 0.25 inches, use scissors (or a wick trimmer) to neatly trim it. Try to be as precise as you can. A too-short wick can get lost in a sea of melted wax and fail to light.

Minimize Mess When Putting Out Your Candle

When it comes time to put out your candle, do so carefully. If your candle came in a jar, you can put it out by placing the lid back on. Or you can invest in a proper snuffer. "Blowing a candle out works, but should be done carefully," LaVanier says. "Be gentle, using only the amount of air needed." If you blow too hard, you can cause wax to splatter everywhere—wasting your wax and creating a mess for you to clean up.

You can also put your candle out by dipping the wick in melted wax. LaVanier suggests using a special candle tool called a wick dipper to press your wick into the wax, then straighten it back up before it dries.

Retire Your Candle With Wax in It

You should stop using a candle before it completely runs out of wax. Why? If you let your candle burn all the way down, it could overheat its container—which could damage the container, create a mess, or both. Most candle experts recommend retiring your candle while there's still 0.5 inches of wax left in it.

Remember, you can always clean out the wax and reuse your container. LaVanier recommends using a mug warmer to burn off the rest of the wax, or placing your candle in the freezer. This can cause the wax to shrink, allowing you to get it out more easily. "Give your vessels another life and reuse them for other purposes—as a flower vase, an orchid pot, a pencil holder, a makeup brush holder, or even a drinking glass," Brown says.

Store Candles in a Cool, Dark Place

Unfortunately, your candles can expire over time. And while they're unlikely to spoil the same way food does, they can lose their fragrance, become discolored, or otherwise grow stale. Temperature fluctuations can speed the aging process up—and light can, too. Find a cool, dark place to store your candles between seasons. (Brown recommends storing your candles at room temperature.) And whenever possible, try to light your candles within 12 to 16 months of buying them.

Dos and Don'ts of Candle Care

Do Let It Burn for About 3 to 4 Hours at a Time

One of the most common candle mistakes LaVanier says she sees: letting candles burn too long—or not letting them burn long enough. "Candles are developed to be burned three to four hours at a time," she says. So you'll want to get as close to this burn duration as you can to get the most out of your favorite romantic candles.

If you go too short, your candle may tunnel, or it may not smell very fragrant. "Fragrance is emitted via evaporation from the pool of hot wax," LaVanier says. "So the larger the hot wax pool, the more it can emit." If you go too long, your candle may get too hot, and its wax may get too thin. The heat can damage some of the fragrance oils in your candle, and the thin wax can cause your candle to put off soot. A great alternative is to use flameless candles when you want candlelight beyond four hours.

Don't Put It in a Windy Spot

Wind can cause your candle to burn unevenly, which can lead to tunneling. "Keep the candle away from air vents, windows, or drafts," Brown says. "If you notice the flame flickering, or it appears to be tunneling, move the candle to a place with less air movement."

Do Put It on a Heat-resistant Surface

This one may seem obvious, but it bears repeating. Be sure your candle is on a steady, heat-resistant surface before you light it. Otherwise, you may damage your furniture. (And of course, keep your candle away from flammable objects—and away from any kids or pets who might knock it over.)