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French people eat 30 kg of cheese per year per person. France produces more than 1 200 varieties of cheese! Winston Churchill even said during WWII “A country capable of giving the world 360 cheeses can not die.” It makes it hard to know all the French cheese names!

French cheese is a jewel of French gastronomy. French people love it and eat it every day. When it comes to food, the French eating etiquette rules and the cheese doesn’t make an exception. Here is everything you should know to be able to buy, serve, eat and keep your cheese the French way!

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Where to buy good French cheese in France?

At the cheese shop

Buying your French cheese at the cheese shop is the most recommended place when you don’t know what to buy and the French cheese names. You will find only good quality cheeses, properly aged and ready to be savoured. The cheesemonger will take the time to guide you to make your choice according to your taste and will make you try if needed.

If you want to explore beyond the famous French cheeses and discover local and traditional delicacies from all types of French cheese from all regions of France, I’d recommend going to a cheese shop. You will find good quality bloomy rind cheese, blue cheese made from raw milk, semi-hard French cheese

Some cheese shops also sell other local delicacies to pair with the cheese, like wines, bread, local jams,…

At the supermarket

We often hear that the cheese sold in the supermarket is of lower quality. It can be true when it comes to buying mass-produced industrial cheeses. But you can also buy cheese by weight at the cheese counter. Don’t get me wrong, you can buy pre-packaged industrial cheese, many French people do, including me, but these will not be as tasty and delicate as traditional cheese.

If you find it easier to buy the pre-cut cheese and still want to find the most authentic and traditional option, look for the AOP or AOC label. AOP means Protected Designation of Origin (Appellation d’Origine Protégée), it is the European label similar to the French label AOC for controlled designation of origin (Appellation d’Origine Contrôlée).

These labels guarantee that the product is produced following the traditional determined method and in a defined location. The AOP and AOC labels are used for many different types of products, in France, it was first initiated for French wine production. Therefore, to have the name Camembert, the Camembert can only be produced in Normandy or the authentic Brie de Meaux in the region surrounding the village of Meaux.

You can also find traditional cheeses that didn’t go through the AOP or AOC label process, these ones are usually done with raw milk and will have no branding. These cheeses are definitely worth a try.

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At the market

The local outdoor or indoor market is also a great place to buy cheese, the same way you would at the cheese shop. The prices will be slightly lower at the market. The cheesemaker will sell his/her own production and other traditional cheeses from a refrigerated truck. The cheesemaker knows the products perfectly and will be happy to give you advice on the one to choose, the best way to learn new French cheese names!

This is usually where I buy the cheese, as well as the fresh yoghurts and eggs. You will also be able to buy churned butter, but I advise you to buy it in small portions as you can keep it shorter than industrial butter.

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At the farm

If you can buy cheese directly from the farm, this is an experience not to miss. When you are on a road trip in the French countryside, keep an eye on the side of the road signs as you may find farmers selling their cheeses and other products.

This is the best way to buy cheese made from raw cow’s milk or raw goat’s milk!

Also, many farmers sell their small production to their neighbours and acquaintances without promoting it. Since I was a little girl, my family gets cheese from my grandparents’ neighbouring farm, they make only one cheese but its taste changes so much according to its stage of ageing that it feels like it is a totally different cheese from the one you got one a few days ago. If you know how to make it age properly.

The different cheeses: hard cheese, soft cheese,…?

What is the difference between pasteurised vs unpasteurised cheese?

When it comes to choosing cheese, we often wonder whether we should choose between pasteurised milk cheese or raw milk cheese. There are actually 4 different types in terms of milk treatment method: unpasteurised, thermalised, pasteurised and micro-filtered in the order of processes modifying the initial nature of milk.

Without getting into too much technical detail, here are the main differences between these 4 types of milk treatment that will then be used to make the cheese.

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Unpasteurised milk cheese

This is the most traditional method as the cheese is made with raw milk and has been heated up to under 40°C. The milk must be used within the first 48 hours after milking and the cheese’s natural bacteria will be preserved and give a specific taste to the cheese.

This type of cheese is produced near the milk supply and gives a better ageing process to the cheese. Some AOC cheeses must be made with raw milk to have the label as is the case for the Roquefort cheese.

Raw milk cheese is contraindicated for pregnant women apart from pressed and cooked cheeses such as Comté cheese or Beaufort cheese. If you are pregnant, make sure you ask your doctor’s advice before making your personal decision as everyone will have a different opinion regarding cheese consumption and pregnancy, especially in France!

Thermalized milk cheese

This process is a good compromise to maintain the “good bacteria” of the cheese and get rid of the bad ones responsible for the listeria for example. The raw milk is heated up for a minimum of 15 seconds between 57 and 68°C.

Pasteurised and micro-filtered milk cheese

The pasteurised milk is heated at 63°C for 30 minutes or 72°C for 15 minutes. The milk can also be micro-filtred to separate the cream and then reintegrate the amount of cream desired. This is why we often see indications of light cheese or low cream cheese.

Most of the prepacked brand cheeses are pasteurised you find in supermarkets are pasteurised and in some cases also micro-filtered. However, this is important to keep in mind, that the fact to use raw or pasteurised milk is not a token of quality. You can find very good quality pasteurised milk cheese and lower quality raw milk cheese. The quality of the milk used and the fabrication process are essential to making good and tasty cheese!

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Why is French cheese seasonal?

As is the case for fruits and vegetables, the cheese is seasonal. Indeed, the grass eaten by the animals varies from one season to another, therefore the milk flavour will too. The spring and summer flowery, fresh grass will give a different taste than the hay and other flours given to the animals in winter. Also, the ageing process is an important factor.

When buying your cheese, you may want to ask the cheesemaker about the difference between summer and winter cheese. Some cheeses are better to consume in specific seasons, for example, long-time ageing cheeses like Epoisse or Parmesan would be more appreciated in winter. I don’t really know and follow this in my daily cheese consumption, but it might be worth exploring more this question. I could, for example, really taste the difference between a winter Beaufort and a summer one! It is worth making a small degustation and taking it into account when choosing your cheese!

How to vary the cheese pleasures the French way?

When buying cheese to make a French cheese board, you will want to have more and less strong cheese and also vary the textures of the cheeses. I always try to have 3 different kinds of cheese on my cheese board from at least 2 different types of milk: cow’s milk cheese, goat’s milk cheese and sheep’s milk cheese.

I also try to have one hard cheese like Comté cheese, a sheep milk Tomme and Beaufort cheese. I also would buy softer texture cheese like Reblochon, Saint Nectaire, the famous Camembert and also fresh cheese, very creamy or even blue cheese. One of my favourite cheeses, and very accessible for people discovering French cheese, is the Brillat-Savarin, an unusually French cheese name. Its inventor, the cheesemaker Henry Androüet, gave it the name of a famous 18th-century gourmet, Mr Jean Anthelme Brillat-Savarin. A very fat and creamy cheese, that you can also find with truffle! A delight! There are so many options, the hardest will be to make up your mind!

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How to serve cheese in France?

Cheese in France is an actual course of a meal. It is eaten after the main course and before or instead of dessert. This is the traditional and most common way to eat it in France. It can also be eaten at the apero when having guests.

Cheese should be served at room temperature. So French people usually take out the cheese from the fridge (and open the box) before starting their meal. That way the cheese will have the perfect temperature, only if you don’t eat too fast!

How to eat cheese like the French & avoid the Brie cheese faux pas?

This is when it can get confusing for most foreigners, especially if you are invited by French hosts. My first advice would be not to serve yourself first and observe how others do before serving yourself. French cheese etiquette is still very present and mainly unconscious for most French people.

The way French people cut cheese allows a fair distribution between the rind and the dough. The person taking the last piece of cheese shouldn’t only have the rind. So, for example, the Roquefort should be cut perpendicular to the rind and not parallel, or the Brie’s nose should not be cut off but remade by cutting in an angle.

Once you have managed to serve yourself without committing a French faux pas (that really no one should openly reprimand you about), you have several pieces of cheese on your plate. The best way to enjoy your cheese is to start with the softer cheese and go up in taste until you finish with the strongest one. Otherwise, you will not taste the softer cheese by the end. Ask your host, they should be able to tell you which one you can start with.

Also, cheese is best eaten with bread. French cheese should never be eaten alone unless you’re having it at the apero. In addition, eating strong cheeses with bread will soften the taste in the mouth, and the wine will also give an amazing match!

People usually separate a piece of bread with their hands, take a piece of cheese with the bread and eat both at the same time. Cheese is not spread on bread like butter unless it is processed cream cheese. Also, butter should never be spread on the bread before adding the cheese, unless you are making a sandwich for a picnic. However, never make a sandwich with the cheese served after the main course. A cheese platter is an expensive delicacy and your host will feel that you are not respecting it if you are making a sandwich out of it and also that you haven’t eaten enough and liked the main course.

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How to keep the cheese like the French & avoid a Camembert smell in your fridge?

The cheese should be kept on a cheese platter that can be closed or in a plastic box in the fridge. If you want to avoid spreading a “nice” cheese smell in the entire fridge, you shouldn’t keep the cheese in its original packaging unless perfectly closed. If you want to avoid the taste of each cheese mixing with the others, you can wrap them individually in kitchen paper before putting them all in a plastic box. However, if you want to age the cheese like a Camembert that is still too hard or goat cheese, you’ll need to keep it at room temperature. In the countryside, you can still find food safes, the best way to age your cheese as long as it is not too hot.

Discovering French cheese is all about trying, finding out the ones for you and how to match it with a good wine too. If you follow the above tips, you’ll master the French way of savouring cheese in no time! Enjoy your French experience with friends, a cheese board and a good bottle of wine!

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FAQs

▷ How to eat French cheese like the French | Expat in France? ›

Basically, the “correct” order to eat cheese in France is from the most mild (light flavored) to the most strong (stinkiest). So you'll usually start with the cheese that is very light colored and has little smell such as a comté or a goat cheese, and then work your way up to the blue cheese.

What is the etiquette for eating cheese in France? ›

The correct way to enjoy your cheese in France is to gently place a small piece of cheese on a bite-sized morsel of the bread and then put it nicely into your mouth. According to French dining etiquette the platter of cheese should be passed around to each guest.

How is cheese served in France? ›

Usually, the cheese is enjoyed between the main course and the dessert. A specific bottle of wine may be served with each course: amuse-bouche, starter, main course, cheese, dessert. Typically, a red wine will be served with cheese. Good cheese ALWAYS comes with good bread and usually good wine to clean the palate.

How do they eat Brie in France? ›

The French will traditionally serve Brie with baguette or another crusty bread that won't compete with the cheese. Plain crackers are another convenient choice that won't detract from the cheese.

Why do the French eat cheese at the end of a meal? ›

In European dining, the cheese course will be served after the main course. Why do they only serve cheese at the end of the main course? Traditionally cheese was not served with bread but was to be enjoyed in its own merit. Cheese are alkali by nature, which neutralises the acids left by the food we have consumed.

What is impolite to do in France when eating? ›

Eating with your hands is considered impolite, so make sure to tuck into that steak frites with your knife and fork. Notable exceptions include bread and certain dishes including asparagus. One thing you may have noticed in France is people do not cut their salads. Do so, and you might receive a few funny looks.

What is considered impolite in France? ›

It is rude to sit with one's legs spread apart unless in a relaxed context. Rather, sit straight with your legs crossed at the knee or knees together. Feet should not be placed on tables or chairs. If someone is invited to a restaurant or a business function, it is acceptable to arrive at the specific time.

What is France's favorite cheese? ›

Camembert is certainly the most famous cheese in France. Originally from Normandy, it is a soft cheese with a bloomy rind. Traditionally made with raw cow's milk, it can also be found made with pasteurised milk. But the taste of camembert made with pasteurised milk is lighter.

Do French eat cheese with bread? ›

Here in France, we are pretty passionate about our bread and cheese. They are an important part of our tradition and a staple of the French diet. Not only do we feel like a day without either of them is a bad day, but we believe pairing different types of cheese and bread is an art form.

Why does cheese taste different in France? ›

One of the key factors contributing to the uniqueness of French cheeses is the use of raw milk. There may be a version of a French cheese found at home, such as brie, camembert or roquefort, but it will not taste the same or have quite the same quality and uniqueness of flavour as those you can taste whilst in France.

What time of day do the French eat cheese? ›

Traditionally during a French dinner, cheese is served after the main course and before the dessert. You may notice that restaurants will often offer on the menu a plate of cheese in or just before the dessert section.

What is the correct way to eat Brie cheese? ›

To eat Brie, first remove it from your refrigerator and let it rest at room temperature for about 30 minutes. This allows the brie to become softer and more flavorful as it warms. Once softened, simply slice your brie into small wedges, without removing the edible, flavorful rind.

What is the eating etiquette for Brie? ›

Eat the rind

Never cut a piece of Brie from a block in public detaching the soft cheese from the rind. The rind should always be attached when leaving the cheese plate. If you are really not interested in eating the rind, then you may remove it on your own plate or into a napkin.

How do the French eat so little? ›

The French tend to eat their largest meal in the middle of the day, rather than late at night, and theoretically could be burning those calories all day long, says Dr. Ben-Arie. “Maybe that makes them less hungry or less likely to snack the rest of the day,” he suggests.

Do the French eat cheese with salad? ›

Occasionally—and especially if the cheese course will be followed by dessert—the cheeses are accompanied by a small salad to contrast the rich cheeses, as in the photo. You can use any flavorful, vinaigrette-tossed greens.

What is the main meal of the day in France? ›

In France, lunch is typically the main meal of the day, and French people spend more time enjoying lunch than most people in other countries.

What is the etiquette for eating cheese? ›

Always use a separate knife for each cheese (if they have been supplied) to avoid mixing flavours. When cutting a cheese wedge, try to cut a slice along the length of the cheese, from the centre to the rind. Try not to cut the point or the 'nose' off the cheese, which is often the ripest bit and worth sharing around!

What is the French food Rule 7? ›

French Food Rule #7 No snacking! It's okay to feel hungry between meals. ( 4 meals , or three meals and one snack. Limit snacks, ideally one per day, two max & more for small children, and not within one hour of meals) It's okay to feel hungry between meals.

What special rules must you follow when dining in France? ›

Etiquette: 10 Essential French Table Manners
  • We bring our fork to our mouth, not our mouth to our fork. ...
  • We don't put our elbows on the table (as the man in the blue shirt is doing). ...
  • Try not to make any noise. ...
  • Don't spit your food out. ...
  • Don't put your hands underneath the table or on your lap.

Do you eat cheese or dessert first in France? ›

In Europe, cheese is served after the main course and then comes the dessert- in France the saying goes, sweet follows salty. Just to make sure you're paying attention, in England, or in posh English settings, the cheese is served after the main course and the dessert.

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