How to decorate with lilac: ideas, tips and advice (2024)

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Lilac is an unusual and underrated color that’s packed with meaning and symbolism. When it comes to painting our homes, many of us opt for the blues, greens, and pinks, but lilac is all-too-often forgotten about, or reserved for kids' bedrooms.

But, done the right way, lilac can bring a tranquil and uplifting feel to your home, meaning soothing purple bedroom ideas are a great thing to consider. Lilac symbolizes hope, optimism, and looking towards the future. The color shares its name with lilac the flower, which has the shortest spring-time bloom period of just three weeks and is adorned with the most delicate lilac and pink-edged petals.

Lilac has come to represent the start of spring and the hope of a warmer season.‘Lilac has a spiritual, dreamlike quality, ’ says Marianne Shillingford at paint company, Dulux (opens in new tab). ‘In Buddhism and Hinduism, the sacred lilac lotus is a symbol of beauty, rebirth, and enlightenment.’

In 19th-century Europe, lilac was worn after black to indicate that you were in the final stages of mourning – another sign of moving forward and looking to the future.

So now you know a bit about the history and psychology of the color, how can you use it effectively in the home?

How and why to make lilac work in your home

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After the past few years, we’re all very ready to start looking ahead with hope and optimism, which explains perfectly why lilac has become such a big trend in both the fashion and interior design spheres. From chunky cardigans to cushions and from blazers to blankets, lilac is cropping up everywhere as a soft and pretty way to brighten our homes and wardrobes.

‘I think this color is going to continue to be a big trend in the year ahead,’ says Natasha Bradley, head of color at Lick (opens in new tab). ’Consumers are likely to gravitate towards a duskier or more blue-based purple in their homes, which will give more home-decorators the confidence to use the color.'

Although lilac is a soft and seemingly subtle colour, it is quite the statement, so see our tips for using it in a way that works for you.

1. Create a feature wall with lilac wallpaper

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Combine the soothing shade of lilac with a calming nature inspired pattern, as seen with this wallpaper idea. Used behind the headboard of the understated Emilia bed from Sofa.com (opens in new tab), the wallpaper creates a focal point in the space. Lilac is used with off-whites and a hint of gold for a luxurious and elegant scheme.

2. Up the calm in your bathroom with lilac paint

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Lilac works especially well in a bathroom as a softer alternative to blue, and bathroom paint is a great, inexpensive way to bring this by the bucket load into your space. As an inherently cool shade, it's important to bring some warmth to your scheme, and the above bathroom painted in, Lily Lily Rose by Earthborn (opens in new tab), does that perfectly with wood. The rustic wooden stool and wooden and rattan chair bring a more rugged and homely feel to the otherwise crisp space.

4. Create a statement and use it all over

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If there's one color where you can go wild and use it all over your room, it's lilac. Used on all the walls and the floor, lilac becomes the blank canvas for other shades to pop against. In the above scheme by Carpetright (opens in new tab), the white sofa and marble coffee table, and the black armchair and lighting contrast perfectly with the lilac and brings an orderly and sophisticated feel.

5. Add warmth to the scheme with deep pink

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You may think lilac and pink together would scream five year old girl's princess bedroom, but done the right way, it can work. This deep pink rug brings a richness and depth to the light and airy lilac wall, grounding the space and adding that all-important texture too. Avoid using lots of soft pink with lilac – this could become quite sickly sweet so always choose deeper shades for a starker contrast.

Another way to use lilac in a grown up way is to think about juxtaposing it with the materials and items it is used on. We love this locker from Mustard Made (opens in new tab) in a soft lilac that contrasts with its industrial style.

What colors work well with lilac?

There are a couple of palettes that work really well with lilac. The one you choose will depend on whether you want to make a statement with lilac or use it as part of a calming scheme.

The bold palette

‘Complementary colors sit opposite one another on the color wheel and they’ll create high contrast when used together in your home,’ says Anne Haimes, founder and director at Anne Haimes Interiors (opens in new tab). ‘Opposite lilac is dark olive green, burnt orange, or vibrant lemon yellow, and these will work to bring warmth and depth to your scheme. A richer purple, forest green, and mustard yellow all work well to bring warmth and depth to a scheme too.

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The neutral palette

'If you’re looking for a more neutral, muted color palette, pair lilac with soft sage green, light caramels, and earthy browns or greige,' Anna continues. The three neutral shades below will create a calming yet warm base and allow a lilac accent or feature wall to really do the talking.

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What rooms will benefit from lilac?

It’s important to consider where your room faces in relation to the sun as this will determine the best shade and color palette to choose for your room. ‘Despite its pink hints, lilac is a color that lives on the cool side of the spectrum,so it doesn’t always work well in north-facing rooms,’ Shillingford explains.

The rules of decorating with lilac

Dos
– Combine with greys and whites for a calming scheme
– Use with warm shades in a north-facing room
– Use contrasting colors to add impact

Don'ts
– Combine with blues or reds
– Be afraid to go all over
– Forgot to add depth with woods, cottons and jute

'It can make the space appear cold unless you have great artificial lighting. Instead, use it in predominantly south-facing rooms and spaces with plenty of natural light,’ Shillingford continues.

If your heart is set on lilac and your room happens to face north, you can warm up the scheme with other colors. ‘In a north-facing room, balance out lilac with some additional heat, potentially using colors with a base of yellow or green,’ says psychologist and wellbeing consultant, Lee Chambers (opens in new tab).

This said, it's always best to try out paint colors before you buy them. Paint 12-inch squares onto all the walls you intend to paint. Then keep on checking in at different points in the day to see how the color looks in different lights. You might love the color in the afternoon sun, for example, but it may look too dark and dingy at night. Take your time – it's better to test 10 colors and find the right one, rather than paint your whole room and then realize you don't like it!

What are the best lilac paints?

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Heather Plum by Benjamin Moore (opens in new tab)
At the deeper end of the lilac spectrum, Heather Plum has definite purple undertones, making this the ideal shade for pairing with a black and white palette.

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Sugared Almond by Farrow & Ball (opens in new tab)
As a slightly more gray and somewhat less striking lilac hue to choose, Sugared Almond is a great option for those looking to dip their feet into the shade, but who still don't want to go too bold.

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Fresh Lilac by Yes Colours (opens in new tab)
This shade is particularly light, airy and whimsical – a true lilac. Yes Colours is a new brand that was launched out of lockdown and is eco-friendly from production to packaging.

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FAQs

How do you style a lilac room? ›

The neutral palette

'If you're looking for a more neutral, muted color palette, pair lilac with soft sage green, light caramels, and earthy browns or greige,' Anna continues. The three neutral shades below will create a calming yet warm base and allow a lilac accent or feature wall to really do the talking.

Is lilac a good color for a living room? ›

Is lilac good for a living room? Delicate and soothing, lilac makes a good color for a relaxing living room. Conjuring scenes of pretty trailing wisteria and fields of lavender, it is perfect for bringing the beauty of nature into the home as well as a feminine touch to living spaces.

What is the psychology of the color lilac? ›

According to color psychology, the color lilac is frequently associated with qualities such as friendliness, open-minded, immaturity, and extroversion. The color is said to help reduce antisocial behavior and aggression by encouraging emotional expression.

Does lilac go with everything? ›

Lilac can work well with many colors, including shades of green, orange, and yellow. Lilac colors also work amazingly well with shades of gray and other neutral colors like white. A light blue can also help to make lighter shades of lilac stand out more.

Do lilac and grey go? ›

Lilac and grey work surprisingly well together; just play around with different shades and fabrics for an easy outfit formula that always works. Soft, feminine and undeniably cool, it's the easily replicable Instagram trend we love right now.

How to choose colors to decorate a room? ›

How To Choose Interior Paint Colors
  1. Create a Color Scheme That Matches Your Home's Furniture. ...
  2. Decide on the Finish to Create an Appealing Visual Effect. ...
  3. Match The Color To The Feeling You Want In The Room. ...
  4. Know Your Whites. ...
  5. Create Flow in Open Plan Spaces. ...
  6. Make Small Spaces Feel Bigger or Cozier. ...
  7. Using Color Architecturally.

Is lilac a good color for a bedroom? ›

Lilac is a fresh, unexpected color that lends a playful, fun vibe to any room. We love Benjamin Moore's French Lilac because it's a rich tone that doesn't feel too saccharine. While this shade is lovely in a nursery or kid's bedroom, it also looks mature and can work well in a primary bedroom.

What is a pretty color for a living room? ›

Gray is a popular neutral for any room in the house, but it looks particularly sophisticated in the living room. It is among the most popular living room colors. Blue is America's favorite color, so it's a no-brainer for the room that brings everyone together.

What Colours make a living room cozy? ›

Cozy colors are saturated tones, and they tend to be dark shades of a warm hue, such as red, orange, and gold. A cozy color also can be a neutral, such as chocolate brown, caramel, fawn, or charcoal.

What is the most popular colors for living room furniture? ›

The most popular living room color is green—particularly greens inspired by the colors of nature. Designers love it because it is a soothing color that pairs well with soft neutrals, crisp whites, and a bevy of earthy greys, browns, and blues.

What does lilac say about you? ›

Lilacs are usually strongly associated with female traits, such as caring, emotion, and upbringing. According to color psychology, Lilac is considered to be a soothing color which can encourages emotional expression, because Lilac color can convey a gentle and calm feeling.

Can lilac help with anxiety? ›

'Lilac specifically is also associated with hope and optimism, so it is good for alleviating feelings of stress and anxiety before heading off to sleep,' he says.

What does it mean when someone gives you lilac flowers? ›

The lilac flower symbolizes innocence and purity. These beautiful flowers are also considered to be the symbol of initial love in the Asian, European, and American regions. In New Hampshire, many loves tend to give their partners a bouquet of beautiful lilacs on any happy occasion.

How do I make my lilac happy? ›

Let your lilac bask in the sun and it will be happy! Lilac plants prefer full sun and need at least 6 hours of it a day to grow well. When choosing a place to plant your lilac, make sure it is somewhere with enough sun. While lilac bushes need room to grow, but they can grow in a garden setting as well.

What season looks good in lilac? ›

Lilac is a shade that especially suits Spring and Summer women. For both these colour schemes, wearing warm, soft, pastel tones such as lilac or lavender enhances their harmony.

Does lilac and navy blue go together? ›

Navy blue and lilac

It's a very calming hue, that much like pink does need something darker to ground it and give it a less saccharine quality. Hence why it works so well with navy blue.

What are the 3 best colors that go together? ›

If you're looking for a few basic but perennially popular 3 color combinations to kickstart your color palette, think about combinations like:
  • Yellow, red, and blue.
  • Green, orange, and purple.
  • Teal, magenta, and gold.

What color attracts the human eye most? ›

Red and orange seem to be the clear winner when it comes to eye-catching colors. These colors tend to stand out and are therefore used on many warning signs or safety equipment. Yellow is another color that comes in a close second to red and orange in popularity.

What color is opposite lilac? ›

The complementary opposite of lilac on the color wheel is yellow. This is why yellow and orange both pair well with lilac, creating a fresh spring feel for your creative designs.

Does lilac and cream go together? ›

Lilac, cream and gold

Lilac is a gorgeous shade of purple with a slight pinkish hue. Like pink, lilac is versatile and can tone with many different colours. For a soft, cozy effect, consider matching lilac with cream, light blue and gold.

Does gold go with lilac? ›

Lilac hues create a soft and romantic theme in bouquets, are stunning shades for shoes and dresses, and give donuts an enticing glaze. Purple and gold have never looked so good together!

What is the 60-30-10 rule? ›

What is the 60-30-10 Rule? It's a classic decor rule that helps create a color palette for a space. It states that 60% of the room should be a dominant color, 30% should be the secondary color or texture and the last 10% should be an accent.

How many colors should be in a room when decorating? ›

According to the 60-30-10 rule, you should only use three colors in any room – although you can successfully incorporate many different tones of these three colors.

How do you put colors together when decorating? ›

The best way to create a cohesive look is to follow the 60-30-10 rule — 60 percent dominant color, 30 percent secondary color and 10 percent accent color. To create a more relaxing vibe in a space, such as a bedroom, choose muted hues or cool tones. For a more energetic feel, go for more saturated hues or warm tones.

What is the happiest color for a bedroom? ›

Gremillion explains: Happy colors are bright, warm colors like yellow, orange, pink and red. Pastel colors like peach, light pink or lilac can also have an uplifting effect on your mood. The brighter and lighter a color, the more happy and optimistic it will make you feel.

What is the most relaxing color for bedrooms? ›

Blue promotes a feeling of calmness and serenity. It can also be linked to feelings of trust, stability, and dependability. One study by Travelodge found that households that have blue bedrooms received the best night's sleep compared to any other color.

What color is not ideal for a bedroom? ›

However, a recent study has revealed that some tones are better left away from your bedroom walls. The study* surveyed more than 1,000 Americans to discover that yellow, brown, and beige are the three worst colors for your bedroom.

What is the new colour for 2023? ›

The Pantone Color Institute named Viva Magenta as its official color of the year for 2023 for its joyous yet powerful nature. A red with subtle notes of purple, magenta flawlessly complements many different color palettes from those on the richer, jewel-tone side of the spectrum to even a lighter, earthy palette.

What is a welcoming color? ›

Yellow or lime green

Not only are the colours in this colour family cheerful, they are welcoming and fun, too. Choose a bright yellow or lime green to offset a more bland home colour and add a pop of personality to the front of your home.

What colour makes a living room look bigger? ›

So, what colors make a room look bigger? For an optimum effect, go with soft tones like off-white, blues, and greens, and always remember that brighter rooms feel bigger and more inviting. And here's another hack: Try painting your wall trim and moldings in a lighter color than your walls.

What color is replacing gray 2023? ›

Here, designers, decorators, and color experts reveal why beige is replacing gray for 2023, and how to decorate with beige for a beautiful scheme every time.

What are the newest colors for home decorating 2023? ›

With the latest 2023 color of the year announcement, soft, earthy shades of pink and clay take the lead as the most popular paint colors. Terra Rosa by Dunn-Edwards blends brown and burgundy for a rosy pink that works as both a grounding neutral and a delicate accent.

What color furniture is timeless? ›

These classic hues include neutrals (blacks, creams, beiges), navy blue, and darker shades of green. These timeless interior design colors just never seem to go out of style, and are very safe choices for an ageless look.

What are 3 facts about lilacs? ›

Lilacs belong to the same family as the olive. The purple lilacs have the strongest scent compared to other colors. Lilacs are commonly used in soaps, perfumes and other cosmetics. Wood from the lilac tree is among the densest and can be used to make musical instruments, knife handles and more.

Why is lilac so popular? ›

The lilac is a very popular ornamental plant in gardens and parks, because of its attractive, sweet-smelling flowers, which appear in early summer just before many of the roses and other summer flowers come into bloom.

Why do people like lilac? ›

Lilac is considered a feminine, graceful color. Its connection with flowers means it's often associated with romance and affection. Like other pastel shades, it can conjure innocence, youth or nostalgia.

What color promotes anxiety? ›

For instance, red shades tend to trigger your stress response, making you more anxious, while lighter shades calm you down. If you are feeling overly stressed, you can use color as a stress management tool.

What emotions are in lilac? ›

According to color psychology, the color lilac is frequently associated with qualities such as friendliness, open-minded, immaturity, and extroversion.

What are the 3 symbols in when lilacs? ›

This first section of the poem introduces the three principal symbols of the poem — the lilac, the star, and the bird. They are woven into a poetic and dramatic pattern.

What goddess is associated with lilacs? ›

Meaning & Symbolism of Lilac

The story of lilac, according to Greek mythology, begins with a beautiful nymph named Syringa (lilac's botanical name). Captivated by her beauty, Pan, the god of the forests and fields, chased Syringa through the forest.

What do lilacs want? ›

The ideal spot to plant lilacs is in an area with full sun (at least 6 to 8 hours per day)—give them too much shade and they may not bloom. Lilacs also like slightly alkaline, moist, well-drained soil. The best time to plant lilacs is in late fall before the ground freezes.

What color compliments lavender? ›

What colors go with lavender? Well, neutral colors like gray, smoke, and off-white are often the best ones to complement it. Lavender can turn around the depressing and muted impression of the cool neutrals. It also conveys a feeling of royalty and plush opulence with its subtle beauty.

Does lilac and grey go together? ›

Lilac and grey work surprisingly well together; just play around with different shades and fabrics for an easy outfit formula that always works. Soft, feminine and undeniably cool, it's the easily replicable Instagram trend we love right now.

What color compliments purple? ›

Gold, copper, and yellow are colors that go with dark purple, imparting a regal ambiance. And lilac, pink, and white are colors that go with light purple for a softer, delicate feel or a space for a child.

How do you match a lilac outfit? ›

Lilac is a gentle shade, so don't be afraid to wear it along with colors like mustard yellow, cobalt blue, or even emerald green. A deeper purple could also complement lilac. For example, wear a lilac long-sleeved blouse tucked into an emerald green skirt. Try pairing lilac shorts with a mustard yellow tee.

What pairs nicely with lavender? ›

Lavender's sweet, fragrant flavor complements a range of foods, both sweet and savory. Ingredients lavender goes well with include strawberries, blueberries, pears, lemon, orange, honey, sage, rosemary, oregano, thyme, black pepper, and chocolate.

What is the best combination for lavender? ›

Lavender can work well with a lot of colors, these include neutral colors like white, gray, and even beige. Also, colors like yellow, green, pink, and other pastel shades go with lavender. You might also consider black and brown, which is a bolder choice for a color combination.

What lipstick goes with lilac? ›

Lilac and Hot Orange

A soft lilac or even violet eyeshadow paired with hot orange lipstick creates a beautiful color contrast and is seriously flattering on almost any skin tone.

Does navy go with lilac? ›

Navy blue and lilac

It's a very calming hue, that much like pink does need something darker to ground it and give it a less saccharine quality. Hence why it works so well with navy blue.

Does silver go with lilac? ›

Lilac Bouquet

Lilacs come in many different shades of purple, making this flower a good choice for a purple and silver color combination.

What colors dont match with purple? ›

Bright orange and red are two examples of colors that can clash with purple and create a jarring and overwhelming space,' Artem Kropovinsky warns. 'Additionally, it's best to avoid pairing purple with too many other bold colors, as it can make the space feel overwhelming.

What color flowers go with purple? ›

Compliment purple flowers with similar colors like pink-purple (magenta) or a blue-purple (violet) flowers. Combine purple purple with an opposite color, like yellow or yellow-orange.

Does turquoise go with purple? ›

Turquoise and Purple

This combination is one that really pops, so it's not for the faint of heart! Combining bold, saturated shades of each is one option, but it tends to be a bit much for most people.

What eyeshadow goes with a lilac dress? ›

What Makeup to Wear With a Purple Dress. Color theory would suggest pairing a purple dress with yellow or gold tones for a beautiful contrast, and we agree. If you're wearing a lavender shade, opt for a totally nude look with a pale gold eyeshadow.

What Princess wears lilac? ›

Rapunzel

This lilac-colored thing is basically your average, cookie-cutter princess dress.

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