How Drag Story Time became a thing at Kelowna’s downtown library (2024)

Rob Munro

Drag artist Freida Whales will be hosting Drag Story Time at Kelowna's downtown library on Jan. 28.

Image Credit: Submitted/Jillian Karpick

January 19, 2023 - 6:00 AM

Libraries everywhere work hard to encourage children to discover the joys of reading books.

That’s just a given.

But, why is the Kelowna library pursuing that goal by bringing drag artist Freida Whales to read to young children?

“I’m more fun as Freida,” Tyler Cook, who does drag as Freida Whales, told iNFOnews.ca. “I can be more expressive. I’ve got more fun costumes that the kids love. I’ve got giant foam wigs that the younger kids are enthralled with.”

By day, Cook is a teaching assistant in an elementary school. He took up drag about six years ago and does drag shows all over the Kamloops and Okanagan regions – including some story times in libraries reading to young children but mostly in adult venues.

His next story time is at Kelowna’s downtown library at 11 a.m., Jan. 28.

“I work in a school and I see every day how a lot of kids are more and more dependent on technology and they can’t read or don’t enjoy reading,” Cook said. “So, I’ll do as much as I can to get children to enjoy a good book.”

Just as a clown dressed up in his clown outfit is more entertaining than in civilian dress, being in drag can be more entertaining than Cook in his regular outfit.

But, that doesn’t explain why drag is such a thing, especially since it triggered protests when he last did it in Kelowna in 2019.

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More recently, a drag queen story time in a Coquitlam library last weekend sparked a confrontation involving police.

According to CBC, about 10 protesters were shouted down by 100 supporters. Drag queen Conni Smudge was escorted into the library by RCMP officers.

“I’m concerned about protesters,” Okanagan Regional Library CEO Danielle Hubbard told iNFOnews.ca. “I don’t want it to be an uncomfortable experience for my staff or for Freida or for the families there. I want for people who are choosing to come to the event to have an enjoyable, comfortable experience.”

Protesters, if they show up, are expected to stay outside the library building.

Hubbard has informed the RCMP about her concerns and has been told they will have a presence there. Kelowna city councillor Loyal Wooldridge will also be on hand.

The protest in 2019, at the second of two Drag Story Times that Freida Whales did, drew 300 supporters and only two protesters, Cook said.

“Those were my first two protesters. I’m very proud of that,” Cook said with a laugh. “That’s when you know you’ve made it when you’ve pissed somebody off.”

Drag Story Time events have been held in other Okanagan communities where Okanagan Regional Library has branches but have not triggered the level of opposition that has been shown in Kelowna, both Hubbard and Cook said.

Men dressing in drag have been around ever since there were clothes, Cook said, pointing out that it was men who first wore high heels and make-up and pink was the favoured royal colour.

Drag was popular in the 1990s, he said, but really took off in the 2000s, especially after RuPaul’s Drag Race became a hit TV show starting in 2009, which was an inspiration to Cook.

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But is it really necessary to have a man dressed as a woman reading to and entertaining mainly preschool aged children?

There are other options and other groups will be presenting in the coming months.

The Jan. 28 performance is the first of three Community Reader Story Time events in Kelowna library this winter.

The next two will feature firefighters and nurses.

“If a group of firefighters want to come and read dressed as firefighters, that’s going to be really cool for some kids,” Hubbard said. “It’s not that you have any particular message or slant other than, 'hey, I’m a firefighter and I support kids learning to read.'”

The whole idea behind story time is to encourage children to love literacy, she said.

“It’s certainly something public libraries aspire to and believe in – providing story time programs even to kids who are too young to read themselves,” Hubbard said. “It introduces them to the concept that books have words and words have stories and stories give a perspective on truth and life and learning. There’s also the social engagement part to story time where children or families or parents are making connections with other people in their communities.”

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Each presenter brings a different perspective.

Cook’s goal, along with getting kids to read is, through his selection of reading material, to educate about inclusiveness.

“I’m pretty specific about the books I pick because I don’t like to read too wordy ones, especially with the younger kids, because it goes over their heads and they stop listening,” he said. “My criteria for picking is, I want books about someone who’s understanding who they are and just accepting everyone around them for being different or the same or whatever.”

One he’s read before is about a spoon being jealous of a fork because the fork has all the fun of stabbing things and no one does anything dangerous with a spoon.

“Then the mom says: ‘Oh. You get to dive into ice cream and sit in a hot mug of tea.’ And he goes: ‘Ya. That’s fun.’ So it’s about finding out what’s cool about yourself and not, kind of, being down.”

Image Credit: Submitted/Jillian Karpick

Books are selected in conjunction and don't carry gender identity messages, he said.

Cook also says he doesn’t dress provocatively or reveal much flesh, even to his adult-only audiences, as some popular drag performers are known to do.

But, again, is drag really a necessary for story time?

“I think a program like a Drag Story Time is valuable in that it showcases people being different from the white Christian mainstream,” Hubbard said. “Whether you like what the other group represents. Whether you can relate to it or not. Whatever you may think of it, it’s just valuable to have examples of people being different from each other and being visible.”

All the controversy, and the corresponding media attention, also gets conversation going.

“The fact that an event like this generates discussion or opposing viewpoints, I don’t think is inherently negative,” Hubbard said. “In fact, if there is something positive about this, is that it's a form of human expression or a form of information that can generate conversation and can get people to look at things from different viewpoints.”

A Change.org petition against the event was quickly removed earlier this month because, Cook said, it was full of misinformation.

In response, Sydney Richardson-Carr, started a Continue Family Drag Show Storytime petition in support. It is rapidly approaching 3,000 signatures.

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How Drag Story Time became a thing at Kelowna’s downtown library (2024)

FAQs

Where did drag queen story hour start? ›

Drag Story Hour started in 2015 in San Francisco, and was created by author Michelle Tea, then the executive director of the nonprofit Radar Productions; the first events were organized by Juliàn Delgado Lopera and Virgie Tovar.

What is drag storytime? ›

Drag Storytime (DS) is just what it sounds like—drag artists (Queens, Kings, Qwings and more) reading stories to children in libraries, schools, and other community spaces. Most events are 45 minutes and designed for children ages 3-7, though this may vary by location or event.

Do you tip at drag queen shows? ›

Tipping – There is a culture of tipping performers at drag shows, some say it is a nod to the underground traditions of drag that usually meant little (to no) pay for the performance. Do tip by placing the bill loosely in an outstretched hand for the performer to grab.

Where do they sleep on RuPaul's Drag Race? ›

They aren't allowed to have phones, they're kept in separate hotel rooms, and sometimes production will even put tape on their doors to know if a queen has left her room. In fact, one former queen, Willam, was apparently disqualified in 2012 after her husband visited her hotel room.

What is the purpose of drag? ›

At its core, drag is a creative act—a powerful and personal form of self-expression. Many performers also credit it with giving them a voice. Others use it to explore sexual and gender identity and expression. Still others say drag helps them accept themselves.

What age is storytime magazine aimed at? ›

We have a broad readership from ages 4 to 9. Storytime is perfect for children aged 4 to 6 reading with an adult or older child, and 7 to 9 reading independently.

Why is it called reading drag? ›

What Does it Mean to Read Someone? In drag culture, there's more to reading than the insults you might see on RuPaul's Drag Race. Reading is literally like reading someone like a book. It's an opportunity to playfully point out something you might have trouble simply saying outright.

What does a straight woman wear to a drag show? ›

Just put on a nice dress and maybe some fun shoes, essentially, an outfit you wouldn't mind other people seeing you in on the off chance you get called on to interact with the performers.

What is the salary of a drag queen? ›

New drag queens can earn around $50 per event they go and receive additional money through tips. Once you are able to establish your name in the industry, you can earn up to $800 or more per night, especially if you are performing in top theaters and clubs.

How much cash should you bring to a drag show? ›

If you find yourself having fun, clapping, or cheering, you should probably cough up a little cash. Whether it's $5 or $20, a little tip goes a long way, plus you'll probably get to engage in a quirky interaction with the performer.

Do they drink alcohol on Drag Race? ›

Sober Queens Still Rule Drag Race

Some of the queens in RuPaul's Drag Race: Untucked appear to be drinking alcohol during filming. However, because they are allowed to drink if they so choose, some queens have spoken out about their sober lifestyle.

Who does RuPaul's wig? ›

Testament to this, and a full-circle moment is many of the wigs see on Rupaul's head today are lovingly made by Vanity and Courtney. It is always such an honour and proud moment for Courtney and Vanity to see Rupaul on the mainstage of RuPaul's Drag Race wearing one of their own.

How much do drag queens make a night? ›

In some regions of the U.S., local queens make as little as $30 to $50 a show. In a place like New York City, that number may start at about $125, plus tips ranging from $100 to $700.

What are female drag queens called? ›

A female queen, diva queen, or hyper queen is a drag queen who identifies as a woman. These performers are generally indistinguishable from the more common male drag queens in artistic style and techniques.

How did drag start? ›

The origin of drag can be traced back to the days of antic theatre. Back then women weren’t allowed to play male roles, which is why men had to disguise themselves into female characters. It is believed that the term drag originated from the theatre as well.

When did drag start? ›

The origin of the term drag is uncertain; the first recorded use of drag in reference to actors dressed in women's clothing is from 1870. It may have been based on the term "grand rag" which was historically used for a masquerade ball.

At what age do parents stop reading bedtime stories? ›

New research suggests the frequency with which parents read to their children at bedtime falls sharply around the age of seven – but why stop then?

Why does my 11 year old make up stories? ›

They Want to Seem Cool

Exaggerating the truth—or even outright lying—is often used to mask insecurities. In an attempt to fit in with their peers, kids sometimes insist they've either endured similar experiences as their friends, or they attempt to impress their friends with their stories.

What age do kids stop making up stories? ›

In the early grade-school years, some children still fabricate elaborate stories. They may not quite discern the line between reality and fantasy yet, or they may be trying to get attention. Most children outgrow this phase by age 8 and usually can be counted on to tell the truth.

What does gagging mean in drag? ›

Gagging is used to describe something extremely fierce. Example: "Your performance -- I was gagging the whole time -- it was so amazing, you were so fierce." "Gagging is basically when something is so fierce you are losing your mind on it, you're choking on it," drag queen Nicky Doll said.

What does fish mean in drag slang? ›

fish / fishy. a term used to describe when a drag queen looks like a cis-gendered woman. gag / gagging. another term used in place of "stunned"

What does Kiki mean in drag? ›

When it made its way into drag culture, "kiki" came into its modern use as it meant having fun at a party or other social gathering, especially if there was gossip involved. In the 1990 documentary Paris is Burning, it was used to mean the sound of laughter.

Where did drag culture originated? ›

The origin of drag can be traced back to the days of antic theatre. Back then women weren’t allowed to play male roles, which is why men had to disguise themselves into female characters. It is believed that the term drag originated from the theatre as well.

Who was the drag queen that fell from the ceiling? ›

Tandi Iman Dupree
BornAugust 13, 1978 Memphis, Tennessee, US
DiedDecember 31, 2005 (aged 27)
OccupationDrag queen

Who was the first famous drag queen? ›

One of the biggest stars of the earliest 20th century was Julian Eltinge. Whereas many drag queens played on the fact they were men in women's clothing, Eltinge (as she was often known) had many fans convinced she was not a character, but a genuine actress.

Where is Anubis drag queen from? ›

Charli Finch was born on 14 August 2001 in Seaford, East Sussex. Following the death of their father when they were 16, they lost nine stone and began performing as a drag queen under the name Anubis Finch, a name they chose to pay homage to their father's Egyptian heritage.

Why did drag become a thing? ›

Drag began in the age of Shakespearean theatre, during the late 16th century. At the time, the church was heavily connected to the stage and only allowed men to perform, and so it was that any female roles were played by the men in the cast dressed as women.

What was drag created for? ›

Drag has deep roots in Western culture, specifically in theatre when women weren't permitted to perform on stage so men would play female roles. Drag performers were featured as far back as ancient Greece and carried on through Shakespearean times.

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