For Carol Todd, news that another child has taken their life after a case of sexual extortion is a reminder of her own pain.
RCMPsaidMonday that a 12-year-old boy in Prince George, B.C., died bysuicide last monthafter being a victim of sexual extortion and urged parents to talk to their kids about the potential risks of online activity.
Thenews came on what would have been the 27th birthday of Carol Todd’s daughter, Amanda,whose story spread around the globe after she died by suicide in 2012. Last year, aDutch man wasconvictedofsexually extorting the B.C. teenager.
Todd has advocated for stronger communication between children and caregivers, and stronger legislation and enforcement targeting people seeking to exploit children.
“It’s heartbreaking to me to know that another family is going through a grieving process for a situation that could be prevented,” she said in an interviewwith CBC News Monday.
But she also said families and law enforcement are up against a complex set of forces that hide behind anonymous internet addresses and international borders.
“These predators … they’re more advanced than they were even when this was happening to Amanda,” she said.
WATCH | Caregivers urged to talk to kids about dangers of online interactions: View Table of Contents 1 day ago Duration 2:22 Featured VideoThe death by suicide of a 12-year-old boy in Prince George, B.C., was in response to online sextortion, according to the RCMP. Police are warning parents and caregivers to talk to kids about the dangers of online activity.
Suicide of 12-year-old linked to sextortion, police say
Complex investigations
Dominic LeBlanc, Canada’s public safety minister,said Tuesday that his government is still working on new legislation targeting online harm— something first promised in 2019 but which has yet to be tabled.
LeBlanc said it’s difficult to come up with Canadian laws that address companies and individualslocated outside of the country’s border.
“It’s a complicated space to legislate in and on. But the urgency of moving, I think, is real,” LeBlancsaid.
“That a 12-year-old boy in British Columbia takes his own lifein such a horrible wayshould remind all of us that the online world can be very dangerous and vulnerable people can be preyed upon.”
WATCH| Expert offers tips on talking to kids aboutdangers of sextortion: 12 hours ago Duration 2:50 Featured VideoTiana Sharifi, CEO of the Exploitation Education Institute, shares tips with BC Today host Michelle Eliot on how parents can approach conversations with their children about sextortion.
How can parents talk to their kids about online exploitation?
In an interview from her office in Prince George, RCMP Cpl. Jennifer Cooper told CBC News that while police are investigating what led to the death of the 12-year-old, the nature of the case makes it unlikely any more information will be public in the near future as other jurisdictions and law enforcement agencies may be involved.
“These are not quick investigations to go through,” Coopersaid. “We are still working on identifying a suspect in the matter … and [going] through determining where in the world this suspect may be.”
Police are urging parents to talk to their kids about the dangers of the internet and are hosting a forum for families in Prince George to help educate caregivers about the topic.
Action needed
Signy Arnason of the Canadian Centre for Child Protection said the onus needsto be on government and tech companies, not individuals.
“Parents are really engaged. Parents understand and are terrified about the risks their kids face online,” Arnasonsaid.
“We need these companies … to be held accountable for keeping their platforms safe, knowing that their kids are predominant users of them. We have got to start demanding, through government action, that these platforms are safer for kids to use.”
She said her organization recorded a 150 per cent rise in complaints about sexual extortion to its tip line last year, and without concrete action from companies to make their platforms safer, it’s unfairto expect parents to be able to fully protect their kids from the darker side of the internet.
In the meantime, officials are urging children and families to better understand the risks of internet sextortion, and to talk toeach other about what they are seeing online.
It’s a message Todd endorses— and one she wishes she had heard more than a decade agobefore she lost her own daughter.
“Knowing what I know now, I would have had deeper conversations with my child, in telling her you can come to mom or dadanytime.”
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