Everything I want my family to know about our finances is here (2024)

I maintain a document named “Where is our money?”. This document captures everything I want my family to know about money if I were to be in a position not to tell them—maybe because I am dead or in a coma or prison—or something more pleasant, like being in a Vipassana camp.

About the author and article: This is written by James Pandu, a member of the Facebook Group Asan Ideas for Wealth. It was originally published as a post there in early Jan 2024. The group owner, Ashal Jauhari, suggested publishing it as an article in freefincal. The post is reproduced below with minor edits with the author’s permission.

Contents of the document

This is a Google document shared with every adult in the family who may need to manage money. The document starts by linking to a Google spreadsheet that lists all our financial accounts.

The ‘bank accounts’ sheet has columns such as account holders, IFSC, account number, nominees, purpose of the bank account, minimum required balance, bank customer ID, etc.

The ‘insurance’ sheet has columns such as insurance type, what/who is insured (life/vehicle/etc.), sum insured, annual premium, premium due date, insurance company name, insurance scheme name, policy number, validity, beneficiary, from which credit card or bank account premium is auto-debited, etc.

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The ‘mutual funds’ sheet has these columns: names of the folio holders, AMC name, folio number, purpose of the folio, default bank account (to which redemptions go), and nominees.

The ‘retirement accounts’ sheet has columns such as what type of account this is (EPF, 401k, etc), account number, employer associated with, etc.

The ‘small savings’ sheet has columns such as account holder name, account type (PPF, SSY, etc), account number, maturity date, bank where the account is held, etc.
The next section is about emergency funds. It introduces what an emergency fund is when to use it, emphasises the need to replenish it, etc. After this, it goes over the bank accounts and mutual fund folios where this money is kept.

Then, the document talks about insurance policies one by one. Describes the policy (such as “health insurance top-up for parents”) and links to the policy documents in Google Drive—a folder for each policy containing policy schedule, insurance cards, etc.
In the same section, I also gave some directions on what to do if there are issues with life insurance claims. “After three years, an insurer cannot deny a claim according to Section 45 of the Insurance Law.” “Reach out to this agent if you need assistance.” Etc.

The next section is for long-term investments. Here, I describe the different platforms where we invest; I link to the investment plan my advisor created, etc.
I save regularly for 15 different short-term needs. I also have a spreadsheet for tracking these (I like to be organised).

The next section is my financial advisor’s contact information. I have written here that my family should contact these people if they need help, emphasising that I have paid the advisor for help. This removes any hesitation about contacting a third party for help.

The last section is called ‘Account credentials’. Here, I have included my phone’s passcode and the master password of my password manager. I have also listed the email addresses to which financial institutions send emails (since this is where OTP codes are sent).

What is not included in the document?

I have not included liabilities (loan EMIs) since I have none. People with active home loans, car loans, education loans, etc., may also want to include those details. You don’t want to miss EMIs because the connected bank account has no money.

Updating the document

Now and then, whenever circ*mstances change (such as opening a new mutual fund folio, closing a bank account, etc), I try to update the doc and/or the relevant spreadsheet. But once every year, I make it a point to review and update everything. Once the update is done, I download the document as a PDF and send it as an email attachment to all adults in the family who may have to bear financial responsibilities. In the same email, I also link to the Google doc so they can view the most up-to-date content. (The redundancy safeguards against Google freezing my account or something.) May our families never need to use such a document, especially not in unpleasant circ*mstances!

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How to talk to family about finances? ›

“When family talks are free from judgement and all members feel comfortable discussing topics openly, you create a safe place for future conversations, especially when financial emergencies or tough topics arise.” If you have parents who are hesitant to discuss finances with you, keep the first conversation high level ...

What is the best way to manage family finances? ›

One of the most common family budgeting techniques is to use the 50/30/20 rule. The idea is to divide your income into three spending categories—50% on needs, 30% on wants, and 20% on savings. Once you have prioritized your essential expenses, you can allocate funds for your “wants,” such as entertainment or vacations.

How to help your family financially? ›

  1. Give a Cash Gift. If your loved one is having a short-term cash flow problem, you may want to give an outright financial gift. ...
  2. Make a Personal Loan. ...
  3. Co-Sign a Loan. ...
  4. Create a Bill-Paying Plan. ...
  5. Provide Employment. ...
  6. Give Non-Cash Assistance. ...
  7. Prepay Bills. ...
  8. Help Find Local Resources.

Why is family financial management important? ›

If not managed properly, high debt levels can lead to financial distress. As such, you should identify all your debts and list them in order of importance. Good family financial management will typically include strategies for managing and reducing debt.

How do you set boundaries with family about money? ›

Here are four steps that Goldman recommends you take in order to set financial boundaries with family and friends.
  1. Determine Your Vision. As with any major life event, coming into new wealth should spark necessary reflection. ...
  2. Tell a Select Few. ...
  3. Stick to Boundaries. ...
  4. Create an Action Plan With an Advisor.

How do you talk about finances without arguing? ›

Don't spring it on your spouse or partner suddenly, and don't come on too strong. Ease into it by mentioning that you'd like to set aside time to casually discuss your hopes and goals related to money. Pick a relaxed day without distractions. Frame it as a chance to dream together, not point fingers.

What is a simple rule for managing your finances? ›

The rule is to split your after-tax income into three categories of spending: 50% on needs, 30% on wants, and 20% on savings. 1. This intuitive and straightforward rule can help you draw up a reasonable budget that you can stick to over time in order to meet your financial goals.

What are the three types of family budgets? ›

  • Budget can be of three types:
  • A. Deficit budget:
  • When the expenditure exceeds income, it is known as deficit budget. It is not at all desirable.
  • B. Surplus budget:
  • In this budget, the income is more than the expenditure. The family is able to save more in this budget.
  • C. Balanced budget:
  • This is a good budget.

What are the 5 factors to be considered in budgeting? ›

What Are the 5 Basic Elements of a Budget?
  • Income. The first place that you should start when thinking about your budget is your income. ...
  • Fixed Expenses. ...
  • Debt. ...
  • Flexible and Unplanned Expenses. ...
  • Savings.

What to do when your family cuts you off financially? ›

How To Survive Financially When Your Parents Cut You Off
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  2. Examine Your Spending. ...
  3. Look For Jobs in Areas With Low Living Costs. ...
  4. See If You Qualify For Affordable Housing. ...
  5. Open a Savings Account. ...
  6. Create a Savings Mindset. ...
  7. Avoid Debt. ...
  8. Get a Side Hustle.
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What is a family financial planner? ›

What Is Family Financial Planning? Broadly speaking, financial planning means outlining specific goals you want to achieve with your money and outlining the steps you need to take to reach them. Financial planners are professionals who help people create a financial plan, then put it into action.

How do I manage my home finances? ›

Follow the 50/30/20 rule.

To differentiate between your “needs” and “wants,” put 50 percent of your income toward fixed expenses (“needs”), 30 percent toward variable expenses (“wants”), and the remaining 20 percent against your financial goals.

How to budget as a family? ›

We like the 50/30/20 budget as a place to start. It splits your income three ways: 50% toward needs, such as groceries, housing, basic utilities, transportation, insurance, child care and minimum loan payments. 30% toward wants, such as travel, gifts and meals out.

How do you politely ask for money as a family? ›

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  3. Develop a repayment plan. ...
  4. Give help in return. ...
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How to have difficult conversations with family about money? ›

Tips for when you're having the conversation
  1. Be mindful of your emotions, as well as the emotions of the person you are talking to. ...
  2. Try not to interrupt the other person/people. ...
  3. Being judgemental is only going to make the other person shut down. ...
  4. Keep to the topic at hand. ...
  5. Try and stay about the same eye level.

How do you start talking about finances? ›

  1. Set regular times to discuss finances. There's no perfect time in the relationship to start talking about budgets and financial goals. ...
  2. Consider putting aside the word “money” ...
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