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Money, or more specifically mind-bogglingly large sums of money, can have a weird effect on your friends and partner. If you ever win the lottery, you’ll probably realize incredibly quickly who you can trust, who’s greedier than you expected, and how you’re suddenly the star of the show. Or, rather, your freshly-fattened wallet is.
One redditor shared just how much drama came into her life after she won one of the top lottery prizes. She was hoping to invest the money, as well as to use it to set her family members up with proper places to live. Her boyfriend of 7 months, however, had other plans. You see, he wanted a new car. A Tesla, in fact. And he began pressuring his girlfriend and spilling the beans about her winnings to everyone in their social circle.
The situation escalated to the point that the woman began doubting that she was right to refuse her boyfriend’s request. So she turned to the AITA online community to hear their advice on the situation. Check out the full story below, and let us know what you would’ve done in the OP’s shoes, dear Pandas.
Bored Panda reached out to financial expert Sam Dogen for a few insights about stealth wealth, keeping secrets, and how to diplomatically rebuff requests for money and favors. Sam is the founder of the popular Financial Samurai blog and is the author of ‘Buy This, Not That: How to Spend Your Way to Wealth and Freedom.’ You’ll find his comments as you read on.
Winning the lottery is as much a blessing as it is a curse. Your loved ones might start treating you differently
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A woman turned to the internet for a verdict, wondering if she was wrong to rebuff her boyfriend of 7 months’ aggressive demands for a new car
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Jonas Grinevičius
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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real.At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design.In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle.I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.
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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real.At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design.In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle.I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.
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censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member Follow
dump him.
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Bernd Herbert Bernd Herbert Community Member Follow
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Gin. No tonic Gin. No tonic Community Member Follow
For a boyfriend of under a year, and some friends, a celebratory cake is the option 🎂 or one night out. That's it. True friends are happy FOR YOU, not looking for money for themselves.
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Leonard Linton Leonard Linton Community Member Follow
Dr Benjamin the professional lottery spell caster helped me win lottery, he can help you too. email him drbenjaminlottospell711@gmail.com...
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Paulo Freitas Paulo Freitas Community Member Follow
I would do the same as her, 1st thing 1st, pay for my siblings homes ( mortgage ) and them give them a chunk of my winnings, 2nd improve my mother's home ( She allready owns it só... ) 3rd get myself a home and a car ( nothing fancy, its not my style ) 4th Invest part of the money ( real estate its a good investment here ), finally ( and this would be a guilty pleasure of mine ) set up a sanctuary for stray cats where they have a warm bed, a place to play around and plenty of food and water. New girlfriends of months don't get nothing exorbitant untill we have been together for a few years.
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Rens 1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
This is exactly what I would do, right down to the cat sanctuary x
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Bernd Herbert Bernd Herbert Community Member Follow
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Gin. No tonic Gin. No tonic Community Member Follow
For a boyfriend of under a year, and some friends, a celebratory cake is the option 🎂 or one night out. That's it. True friends are happy FOR YOU, not looking for money for themselves.
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Leonard Linton Leonard Linton Community Member Follow
Dr Benjamin the professional lottery spell caster helped me win lottery, he can help you too. email him drbenjaminlottospell711@gmail.com...
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Paulo Freitas Paulo Freitas Community Member Follow
I would do the same as her, 1st thing 1st, pay for my siblings homes ( mortgage ) and them give them a chunk of my winnings, 2nd improve my mother's home ( She allready owns it só... ) 3rd get myself a home and a car ( nothing fancy, its not my style ) 4th Invest part of the money ( real estate its a good investment here ), finally ( and this would be a guilty pleasure of mine ) set up a sanctuary for stray cats where they have a warm bed, a place to play around and plenty of food and water. New girlfriends of months don't get nothing exorbitant untill we have been together for a few years.
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This is exactly what I would do, right down to the cat sanctuary x
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