A mom who's stuck with the bill for her ex-husband's student loans is struggling to pay the $365,000 balance and help her kids at the same time (2024)

Shannon Rowan, 51, divorced her husband in 2010. But more than a decade later, their student loans are preventing them from fully separating.

In 2002, Rowan and her then-husband decided to consolidate their student-loan balances into the spousal joint-consolidation loan program, which Congress created to allow married couples to combine their balances and make payments with a single interest rate.

When they decided to divorce eight years later, they could not separate their loans because Congress shuttered the program in 2006, leaving them without any avenue to pay their loans separately. As a result, the judge overseeing the divorce ordered Rowan to pay 18% of the balance — which was about $98,000 at the time — and her ex-husband was ordered to pay 82% of it since the majority of the loans belonged to him, according to court documents reviewed by Business Insider.

The agreement also stated that her ex-husband would make the payments and Rowan would reimburse him for her portion.

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While Rowan's ex-husband made some payments, they were not consistent — and she was notified that her loan was in default status with the risk of wage garnishment if she did not bring the account up to date on payments.

Their combined student-loan balance now stands at just under $365,000, per documents reviewed by BI, due to surging interest on the loans during the periods when no payments were being made. Rowan has since remarried, and to help pay for her kids' education, her husband has had to take out federal parent-PLUS student loans under his own name, which allow a parent to borrow up to the full cost of attendance for their child.

"When my oldest went into college, I tried to get a parent loan, and I couldn't because of my outstanding debt. So my current husband has all my kids' student loans in his name," Rowan told BI.

"And we've got a second one that's in university now, and it's the same situation," she continued. "All the student loans are in my current husband's name. So it's just been extremely difficult, and I want to make the payments. I want to get out of default status. I went to college, I got my degree, I owe that money back, and I have no problem paying it, but he has to be the one to do it."

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Shannon Rowan

While Rowan wants to separate her loans to gain financial freedom from her ex, other borrowers with spousal loans are seeking to separate their balances for a range of reasons. One married couple previously told BI they want separate so they can qualify for Public Service Loan Forgiveness, and spousal loans are not eligible for the program.

To address the issue, Sen. Mark Warner of Virginia and Rep. David Price of North Carolina introduced the Joint Consolidation Loan Separation Act of 2021 — signed into law by President Joe Biden in 2022 — to allow borrowers to separate their spousal loans. However, Federal Student Aid's website said implementation of the law likely won't happen "until late 2024 at the earliest," meaning spousal borrowers are still stuck in limbo without any avenue for relief.

"It's been a huge financial stress because my husband also has the house in his name," Rowan said. "And I keep thinking every time we try to do something that is necessary for the kids or our living situation, are we going to get turned down as a result of all of this?"

'It's been a nightmare'

Rowan said she started encountering hurdles with her student-loan balance shortly after her divorce. For example, when she attempted to purchase a car, she wasn't able to do so because of her outstanding balance in default status.

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She also can't get a new credit card, and she said that her parents are concerned her inheritance will be garnished because of her student loans.

"It's been a nightmare," Rowan said. "It's just a continuous issue."

BI recently spoke to Chrystal Copeland, a 46-year-old mom also seeking to get her loan balance separated from her ex-husband's. Similar to Rowan, Copeland said the inability to separate the balances means she can't buy a new car and she's not on the mortgage for the house her current husband owns.

"The only thing that is still holding me in this cycle of abuse is these student loans," Copeland said. "They're still beholding me to my ex-spouse, and I can't break free."

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For now, Rowan said she is trying to get out of default status. She hopes the application to separate her student loans from her ex will become available as soon as possible so she can finally have closure.

"It was a huge, huge sense of relief when I saw that passed," Rowan said, referring to the law to allow spousal loans to separate. "But the delays have been very disheartening because we thought this was going to be resolved, but it's been a roller coaster."

A mom who's stuck with the bill for her ex-husband's student loans is struggling to pay the $365,000 balance and help her kids at the same time (2024)

FAQs

Does your spouse's student loan debt become yours? ›

Student debt you bring into a marriage typically remains your own, but loans taken out while married can be subject to state property rules in divorce. And if one spouse co-signs the other's private student loan, he or she is legally bound to the loan unless you can obtain a co-signer release from the lender.

Can someone help me with my student loans? ›

Your loan servicer will help you for FREE. Contact your servicer to apply for income-driven repayment plans, student loan forgiveness, and more.

What is being done to help with student loan debt? ›

To date, the Biden-Harris Administration has approved $146 billion in student debt relief for 4 million Americans through more than two dozen executive actions. That includes fixing Public Service Loan Forgiveness and Income-Driven Repayment plans, so borrowers finally get the relief they are entitled to under the law.

Do I have to pay my ex wife's student loans? ›

California law (CA Family Code §2641) considers student loan debt to benefit the individual, meaning the person's education will continue to benefit them after the divorce, so the other spouse shouldn't have to continue to pay for that educational debt.

Am I responsible for my spouse's student loans in divorce? ›

According to California Family Code Section 2641, the state recognizes that student loans only benefit the person who obtained this debt. As a result, only the spouse who obtained the loan will be required to pay it – even if the loan was taken out during the marriage.

Is wife responsible for husband's student loans? ›

Neither you nor your spouse is liable for any student loan debt the other accrued before you got married unless you happened to co-sign for it; however, if one of you takes out a new loan after being married, both spouses could be.

Who qualifies for student debt relief? ›

How do I know if I am eligible for debt relief? To be eligible, your annual income must have fallen below $125,000 (for individuals) or $250,000 (for married couples or heads of households). If you received a Pell Grant in college and meet the income threshold, you will be eligible for up to $20,000 in debt relief.

How to get $10,000 loan forgiveness? ›

Individuals who earned under $125,000, or households that made under $250,000, in 2021 or 2020 qualify for up $10,000 in forgiveness. Those who fall within those income thresholds and received a Pell Grant are eligible for an additional $10,000 in r.

Who qualifies for the student loan forgiveness program? ›

You may be eligible for income-driven repayment (IDR) loan forgiveness if you've have been in repayment for 20 or 25 years. An IDR plan bases your monthly payment on your income and family size.

What is the new student loan forgiveness program 2024? ›

Borrowers can receive relief after at least 10 years of payments if they originally borrowed $12,000 or less for college. Each additional $1,000 in borrowing adds 12 more months until forgiveness. All borrowers on SAVE receive forgiveness after 20 or 25 years, depending on whether they have loans for graduate school.

What happens if you don't pay student loans? ›

If you default on your student loan, that status will be reported to national credit reporting agencies. This reporting may damage your credit rating and future borrowing ability. Also, the government can collect on your loans by taking funds from your wages, tax refunds, and other government payments.

What is the latest student loan forgiveness program? ›

The Biden-Harris Administration announced today the approval of $5.8 billion in additional student loan debt relief for 77,700 borrowers. These approvals are the result of fixes made by the Administration to Public Service Loan Forgiveness (PSLF).

Do student loans get divided in a divorce? ›

How Student Loan Debt Gets Split When You Divorce. Each spouse is responsible for paying back student loan debt they took out before the marriage. However, debt incurred during the marriage may be divided up based on factors like your marriage length, income and who benefited from the loans.

What happens if my spouse doesn't pay student loans? ›

If your spouse defaults on their student loan debt and you're not a cosigner, then you're not legally responsible for repaying the loan. The lender can't collect from you. However, your finances as a household are still in jeopardy.

Does my spouse's income count for student loan repayment? ›

If you're married, you and your spouse's income and student loan debt will be considered to determine your payment only if you file your taxes jointly. If you file your taxes separately, only your information is used to determine your payment.

Do student loans count as debt in divorce? ›

Student loans you and your partner bring into the marriage are considered personal debt that you each have to pay back once divorced. However, if you took out student loans during the marriage, state law will dictate how debt is divided up if you can't come to your own agreement.

Does my husband's income affect my student loan repayment? ›

Also, regardless of how you and your spouse file your federal income tax return (jointly or separately), your loan servicer will determine your eligibility and payment amount based on your and your spouse's combined income and eligible federal student loan debt.

Can my spouse's wages be garnished for my student loans? ›

Your spouse's wages can't be garnished for your student loan debt. Neither the federal government nor a private lender can garnish your spouse's paycheck to collect defaulted student loans — even if you live in a community property state like Arizona or Texas.

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