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"You just made me smile." "I think you're really attractive too." <blushing emoji> "Thanks so much - I love how (insert another personality trait) you are too." "Thanks - you made my day."
"You just made me smile." "I think you're really attractive too." <blushing emoji> "Thanks so much - I love how (insert another personality trait) you are too." "Thanks - you made my day."
You can be as subtle or as bold as you want, but here are a few examples to give you inspiration: “Just thinking about you.” “Making plans for our next date.” “Wondering when I can see you again.”
Tease them gently about something they're good at/confident about. If your crush is a star athlete, try saying, "So how many extra goals is your team going to score when they don't have you on the field?" Or, you could say, “With the high grades you get, I'm starting to wonder if you're bribing the teachers!”
“What are you doing up so late at night?” This is a cheeky, flirty way to let someone know that you're still up. Then, you can get into some more witty banter before they invite you over to their place (or vice versa). “Want to come over?” If you feel like hosting your booty call, you can cut straight to the chase.
Snap a quick picture of whatever you're doing and send it his way to show off what you're up to. Follow up with a quick caption or question so he has something more to respond to. He'll see that you're having a good time without him and he'll really want to be a part of it.
The level of raunch is totally up to you, but even the slightest of suggestive flirtation can usually get a guys's imagination going. Every guy is different when it comes to their texting habits, but these are good places to start.
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